missty1029
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Forgive me, as I did not do a search. I wanted to get my thoughts out before I lost them.
But when your with a guy how do you know he really appreciates you, having you in his life and all that you do for him?
I ask because sad to say I spent most of my time in relationships making sure the guy was happy. I did whatever and I never sat down and said "ok am I happy?" until I wake up one day and realize I am not. By then its too late. They are used to getting what makes them happy so then I just end it. It's hard to switch gears especially with men.
I don't know. Am I looking for an answer that really lies with what is important to me and makes me feel appreciated? I guess I don't really know. I have a bad habit of putting others before me in most situations. And then when I say what I want, people say I am selfish or looking for too much.
I'm confused and I hope maybe you guys can shed some light for me. Thanks!
But when your with a guy how do you know he really appreciates you, having you in his life and all that you do for him?
I ask because sad to say I spent most of my time in relationships making sure the guy was happy. I did whatever and I never sat down and said "ok am I happy?" until I wake up one day and realize I am not. By then its too late. They are used to getting what makes them happy so then I just end it. It's hard to switch gears especially with men.
I don't know. Am I looking for an answer that really lies with what is important to me and makes me feel appreciated? I guess I don't really know. I have a bad habit of putting others before me in most situations. And then when I say what I want, people say I am selfish or looking for too much.
I'm confused and I hope maybe you guys can shed some light for me. Thanks!