girl don't get me started on that man. his actions were very passive. he would forget things on purpose, half do things, or don't do them at all. and he was so extreme about it. he would always flip the script and made me feel like everything was my fault, because he was so silent on matters. he would purposely allow things to go bad, just so he can point i was the one in the wrong, or made the bad decision. he never took responsibility for anything. he never took charge of anything. i almost ended up checking myself into a mental facility and saw three different therapists on my own trying to figure out how to handle a person like him. once i realized that i wasn't the type of woman he needed, i was able to let go and be at peace. i refuse to let a passive aggressive person take me to crazy town! they don't realize it, or maybe they do, but they are very controlling and manipulating.