his METHODS: He emailed me over a month ago and
was consistent in staying in touch...never inappropriate
was playful.... We had just met online only days before
but he also emailed me on Valentine's day
* fast forward to now....he was true to the inital IMs which interestingly enough
I included in a thread I had about rejections....
in that... he was a nice departure from the sleazies.....
here's that part of the thread where I posted his IM!!
http://www.longhaircareforum.com/showthread.php?t=442250&page=2&highlight=
and true to what he said ..we did...what he suggested
he followed through! last night...a month later after first contact
only because I was just about to go on tour in Calif right at the time we
"met" on the internet
He took me to the restaurant of my choice $$$$
what EVER I wanted..I ordered for both of us...I chose the appetizers
we shared two separate entrees which he insisted I choose
with one plate...so romantic
because I ordered Sangria..no ice no fruit
how cute.. he said ..same for me!
....He knew I liked Starbucks and had bragged about
my neighborhood Starbucks and so on the way home
.after our romantic...candlelit dinner....he saw my neighborhood Starbucks before I did and said let's stop here for a coffee...he's soooooosweet...
he did not how to order what I wanted so I went to the counter
with him...and said what I wanted ...the baristas all know me anyway and already knew and then he said .....and now..you can go sit...I WILL TAKE CARE OF IT
on his way home ...he texted me twice!
and in the morning I got this email
Good Morning K,
I just wanted to send you a quick kiss in an email..
I hope you are going to have a good day.
x
P
his TRUE INTENTIONS:
I honestly think it is is to date and get to know each other
enjoy each other and like one another..in a relationship
without an agenda
what CLUED me in:
his demeanor..he's phd professor... so modest
but highly competitive in his field..brings none of that in his interaction with me
solely focused on ..me
When I told him I had a reading and book signing coming up
he said he would be there and BUY A BOOK
and when he touched me he let me know he liked what he touched
because it belonged to me and not just because it was a woman's body
he seem to present a genuine interest in ....me
also there was a conflict in comunication ..once and he apologized
and made amends...rightaway and said he was glad we talked about it...
and next did not do it again
but the big clue was the goodnight kiss at my apartment door
I do not let men in my apartment.... but he did not know that
we had kissed over the table at dinner and it was INCREDIBLE
and btw...I DO NOT kiss everyone I date right away
& rarely on the first date
you have to be plenty hot~ for that to happen
so at my door with no barriers
his kiss was a ROMAN CANDLE it was so powerful
...we connected instantly and immediately.....
like liquid fire
it was soooooooooooooooooooooooooooo hard to do this
but he said..
it's our first date...and kept kissing me
but said.....
I am going home
and
he did..unlike the writer....who teased tantlized ..cajoled
begged to come in ....
this man did not
even though he did not know my rules...yet
he -went-home and texted me instead....
:thatsall:
GREAT THREAD OP!
nice to read INTO you......very sick of...he's not