vivEz daNs lamouR
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This is why I don't like to hear my friends' problems at times. I take them on as my own and then it consumes me.
My best friend, who I've known since we were LITERALLY 2 years old, has been in quite possibly, the most dysfunctional relationship known to mankind.
They've been together for 4 years, and apparently he just proposed to her on Christmas. But he's younger than us, (she's 22, he's...I want to say 20).
For the first 2 years or so that they were together, he gave her Chlymidia and got her pregnant TWICE (which resulted in two abortions, literally not even 6 months apart).
Then they break up to make up roughly every.... month, to two months. She'll call hysterical crying because he keeps calling her to dump her, and then she goes and begs him to take her back and he does.![Roll Eyes :rolleyes: :rolleyes:](data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7)
His family doesn't like her. His mother once told him "You shouldn't be with her. You should go out into the world, sleep around, have fun, don't get tied down so young so quickly with her." So that's what he did.
Well, recently, he told her that he's cheated on her 8 times in the past 2 months. What does she do?
She needs time to figure out what she wants to do. Apparently, she cheated on him once a few months back with someone, and she feels that if she had been there for him more, he wouldn't have strayed.
Damn that, a cheater is an f'n cheater. I've told her that she deserves better, I've said literally every thing I can possibly say about this relationship, it's like talking to someone who has tunnel vision.
They're also NOTHING alike. He smokes AND drinks (And by drinking, I don't mean a social drinker. He came to my house one time with 2 40s of Budweiser and downed them himself. He also had the audacity to come to a dinner party I had had one time, and asked me if he could step outside to smoke. I said sure, WOULD YOU BELIEVE I WALKED OUTSIDE AND HE WAS SMOKING BUD?!). She actually failed out of her first semester of college because of this ****, and now as a result when she SHOULD be graduating, she's behind by 2.5 years.
What do you say in this scenario? I'd like to be there for her but this is SO draining and frankly, quite pathetic.
My best friend, who I've known since we were LITERALLY 2 years old, has been in quite possibly, the most dysfunctional relationship known to mankind.
They've been together for 4 years, and apparently he just proposed to her on Christmas. But he's younger than us, (she's 22, he's...I want to say 20).
For the first 2 years or so that they were together, he gave her Chlymidia and got her pregnant TWICE (which resulted in two abortions, literally not even 6 months apart).
Then they break up to make up roughly every.... month, to two months. She'll call hysterical crying because he keeps calling her to dump her, and then she goes and begs him to take her back and he does.
His family doesn't like her. His mother once told him "You shouldn't be with her. You should go out into the world, sleep around, have fun, don't get tied down so young so quickly with her." So that's what he did.
Well, recently, he told her that he's cheated on her 8 times in the past 2 months. What does she do?
She needs time to figure out what she wants to do. Apparently, she cheated on him once a few months back with someone, and she feels that if she had been there for him more, he wouldn't have strayed.
Damn that, a cheater is an f'n cheater. I've told her that she deserves better, I've said literally every thing I can possibly say about this relationship, it's like talking to someone who has tunnel vision.
They're also NOTHING alike. He smokes AND drinks (And by drinking, I don't mean a social drinker. He came to my house one time with 2 40s of Budweiser and downed them himself. He also had the audacity to come to a dinner party I had had one time, and asked me if he could step outside to smoke. I said sure, WOULD YOU BELIEVE I WALKED OUTSIDE AND HE WAS SMOKING BUD?!). She actually failed out of her first semester of college because of this ****, and now as a result when she SHOULD be graduating, she's behind by 2.5 years.
What do you say in this scenario? I'd like to be there for her but this is SO draining and frankly, quite pathetic.