Nonie
Well-Known Member
Haven't read the whole thread but my 4B is like other 4Bs I've seen. However, contrary to popular opinion, my 4B does have a curl pattern, only it's one that is rarely seen because of how I manipulate my hair to style. Also, because the curls/coils are so tiny, en masse it looks like wool.
There was a time I swore that my hair was no different from steel wool, but in the few years I've been on this site, I have seen its many faces (Oh the versatility of our hair!) and discovered that it really is very soft, even when it doesn't have the shine or appearance of a newborn's hair. So now when I describe it as resembling wool, I now mean sheep's wool and not the steel wool I used to think it was.
I undid a few of my extension braids and took a pic with my cell phone of my 4B hair. I hope I can get someone to take a better one another time, but for now, here goes:
Doesn't look curly, does it? Yet I swear up and down that my hair is made of tiny little curls. And yes it is 4B. Why the absence of curls? That hair's been in braids so it's been bent and twisted this way and that way so that its true shape isn't obvious.
Rather than concern oneself with type, I think one would do well to just figure out what one's hair likes, instead of getting worked up because another's definition differs from one's own. What if our hair types were like of a spectrum of light, so that there are not distinct types, but rather a continuous trend from coarse to soft, or straight to curly...so that depending on where you head falls, you're that texture and someone a nanometer next to you has hair that looks like yours but that behaves a little different coz of that minimal difference in position on the spectrum?
I mean, really, why do we spend so much time worrying or fussing about types?
There was a time I swore that my hair was no different from steel wool, but in the few years I've been on this site, I have seen its many faces (Oh the versatility of our hair!) and discovered that it really is very soft, even when it doesn't have the shine or appearance of a newborn's hair. So now when I describe it as resembling wool, I now mean sheep's wool and not the steel wool I used to think it was.
I undid a few of my extension braids and took a pic with my cell phone of my 4B hair. I hope I can get someone to take a better one another time, but for now, here goes:
Doesn't look curly, does it? Yet I swear up and down that my hair is made of tiny little curls. And yes it is 4B. Why the absence of curls? That hair's been in braids so it's been bent and twisted this way and that way so that its true shape isn't obvious.
Rather than concern oneself with type, I think one would do well to just figure out what one's hair likes, instead of getting worked up because another's definition differs from one's own. What if our hair types were like of a spectrum of light, so that there are not distinct types, but rather a continuous trend from coarse to soft, or straight to curly...so that depending on where you head falls, you're that texture and someone a nanometer next to you has hair that looks like yours but that behaves a little different coz of that minimal difference in position on the spectrum?
I mean, really, why do we spend so much time worrying or fussing about types?
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