IMO, there is no way to mistake the infamous 4B. I've heard some (via web) say that my hair is a "soft looking 4a"...But IMO this is the criteria that is needed to distinguish a 4B.
• Your new growth looks like a puffball made out of carpet.
• After moisturizing, 10 minutes later it looks dry again.
• When it's wet it doesn't LOOK WET.
My 4B hair when wet, it'll look like dry with water droplets on it. My 4a/3C areas in the crown actual looks like wet hair. Think of it this way a wet cotton ball vs. a wet barbie doll.
Here are my 4B pics.
Notice below in my upclose shots of a piece of my nape pulled out. There is NO curl pattern. Just a whole bunch of zig zagged X, Y and Z's.
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moisturized & looks dry but if you stretch these naps out & rub along it, it feels really soft. :/
So yer, I agree. Alot of 4b's dont look like my 4B.
I am glad this thread was done so now i can look through all the 4b's that replied & stalk their fotki's & view their reggies.