jamaicasmodona
Well-Known Member
So, I have a cousin who doesn't seem to know how to keep her distance..
The problem is, every time the family has a get together, we all pretty much hang out in our little section. While we're all talking and catching up on things, she likes to rub on my DH arms and says how strong and muscular he is.. It use to be funny to me before, but now it seems as if its getting out of control.. No, let me rephrase that, it wasn't funny to me, but being that it happens almost every time we're all together, it's starting to become a problem.
The last straw was yesterday. We had a bday party/going to college party for my cousin. We were all hanging out in front of the house talking when my DH came. We had gotten into an argument earlier in the day and didn't really speak much throughout the party. When we finally were alone, we started talking over our issues until my cousin came. She starts talking to us, and then she's rubbing on his arms and saying how she wished she had a strong man like him.. I was a bit pissed off, especially at the fact that she saw us speaking and insisted to intrude anyway.
I got upset and I assume she seen that because she immediately excused herself. After that, I got mad at my DH for allowing her to ALWAYS do that, but then I thought about it and said to myself, why should he do it and she's my family.![Wallbash :wallbash: :wallbash:](/smilies/wallbash.gif)
![Wallbash :wallbash: :wallbash:](/smilies/wallbash.gif)
My question is, how do I approach her without being too b****y?
For thought... cuzzo and I use to be close and at one point, she got me a job at a store where she managed. Her sister and I are BEST FRIENDS basically, but she does have a tendency to push up on other peoples man.![Nono :nono: :nono:](/smilies/nono.gif)
![Nono :nono: :nono:](/smilies/nono.gif)
Help please...![Sad :sad: :sad:](/smilies/sad.gif)
The problem is, every time the family has a get together, we all pretty much hang out in our little section. While we're all talking and catching up on things, she likes to rub on my DH arms and says how strong and muscular he is.. It use to be funny to me before, but now it seems as if its getting out of control.. No, let me rephrase that, it wasn't funny to me, but being that it happens almost every time we're all together, it's starting to become a problem.
The last straw was yesterday. We had a bday party/going to college party for my cousin. We were all hanging out in front of the house talking when my DH came. We had gotten into an argument earlier in the day and didn't really speak much throughout the party. When we finally were alone, we started talking over our issues until my cousin came. She starts talking to us, and then she's rubbing on his arms and saying how she wished she had a strong man like him.. I was a bit pissed off, especially at the fact that she saw us speaking and insisted to intrude anyway.
I got upset and I assume she seen that because she immediately excused herself. After that, I got mad at my DH for allowing her to ALWAYS do that, but then I thought about it and said to myself, why should he do it and she's my family.
![Wallbash :wallbash: :wallbash:](/smilies/wallbash.gif)
![Wallbash :wallbash: :wallbash:](/smilies/wallbash.gif)
My question is, how do I approach her without being too b****y?
For thought... cuzzo and I use to be close and at one point, she got me a job at a store where she managed. Her sister and I are BEST FRIENDS basically, but she does have a tendency to push up on other peoples man.
![Nono :nono: :nono:](/smilies/nono.gif)
![Nono :nono: :nono:](/smilies/nono.gif)
Help please...
![Sad :sad: :sad:](/smilies/sad.gif)