So I've run into a bit of an issue that I can't stop thinking about and would like some advice on please.
I have a friend whom I am very close with, I would consider him one of my best friends. We had been friends for almost two years and although I'd always been attracted to him physically, it just didn't seem like I was his type, if I was I figured he would have pursued me instead of us just being friends and I guess I wasn't initially attracted to him like THAT since only just a friendship had blossomed. But as our friendship grew closer I've come to realize that I love him.
I've kept this to myself for a while now but a couple of weeks ago we were hanging out and we ended up sleeping together for the first time. I was happy to be with him in that way and he said that he loved me and has known that I loved him.
Now I'm just confused. I know he said he loved me and I know I love him, but I don't know if we're IN love with each other. I feel close to him he is my confidant and my best friend but I am not sure what it is that I'm feeling now? Maybe I'm attached because of the intimacy we shared? I just don't know. I care for him deeply but I'm just confused now. He doesn't want a relationship, I know this about him and he's not going to start one with me. Please help![Sad :sad: :sad:](/smilies/sad.gif)
I have a friend whom I am very close with, I would consider him one of my best friends. We had been friends for almost two years and although I'd always been attracted to him physically, it just didn't seem like I was his type, if I was I figured he would have pursued me instead of us just being friends and I guess I wasn't initially attracted to him like THAT since only just a friendship had blossomed. But as our friendship grew closer I've come to realize that I love him.
I've kept this to myself for a while now but a couple of weeks ago we were hanging out and we ended up sleeping together for the first time. I was happy to be with him in that way and he said that he loved me and has known that I loved him.
Now I'm just confused. I know he said he loved me and I know I love him, but I don't know if we're IN love with each other. I feel close to him he is my confidant and my best friend but I am not sure what it is that I'm feeling now? Maybe I'm attached because of the intimacy we shared? I just don't know. I care for him deeply but I'm just confused now. He doesn't want a relationship, I know this about him and he's not going to start one with me. Please help
![Sad :sad: :sad:](/smilies/sad.gif)