he laughed at my hair...

[Hair2Here]

My husband makes statements like this too. I tell him eventually, the outcome will be all good (in a couple of months) but in the mean time, what are you planning to do for me now? Cuz, you could use some of this and a lot of that!

 

[vainღ♥♡jane]

he sleepin on the couch tonight? ♥

 

[vainღ♥♡jane]

yes. I cant wait until the day that I'm able to slap him in the face with my hair!! literally!!

i used to love doing this before my first bc! very entertaining to see the look on folks face like 'did this trick really just slap me with some hair?'. i was only crazy enough to do it to my cousins though, not random people that might be gutter rats. ♥

 

[teysmith]

i used to love doing this before my first bc! very entertaining to see the look on folks face like 'did this trick really just slap me with some hair?'. i was only crazy enough to do it to my cousins though, not random people that might be gutter rats. ♥

hahaha..thats so funny.

 

[spelmanlocks]

My husband says to me too, but its all in fun. Shoot, sometimes I'm like he's right though. I really need to improve on styling my hair.

 

[silenttullip]

lol If it were me I'd get a style done that I know looks fly and chill with myself or some friends for that night. When he'd try to rub or touch it I'd say "ooooo never say never"

 

[silenttullip]

Not saying that this is grounds for a divorce but is he always so discouraging in your hair journey?

That's what I was wondering I mean my so is kinda outspoken but the fact I spend money on products and read about hair lets him know it's important to me he calls me fuzzy cause of my twists but its in a sweet way and picks on women on commercials but when it comes to me he helps with scalp massages, aphogee treatments, even washing it. I know you can't leave a marriage or relationship whenever you're upset BUT that remark goes a lot deeper than just insensitivity to me.

 

[Bnster]

My hair currently needs doing as well and my BF stated the obvious the other day. Da no kiddy, you just won the nobble prize of most stupidous remark. I just shrug it off. But guys can be such idiots.

Take heart OP and stay on your course! There is a shining light at the end of the tunnel, just keep on going, you will reach there.

 

[sqzbly1908]

Girl - just let that statement fuel your motivation!!!

It will hit him like a ton of bricks when he sees you walkin' out the house after you met your hair goal(s) and lookin' all fly - he is going to think there is a Sancho for real...

 

[firecracker]

Ok I will not agree with you calling him a loser but what he said was corny as hell! You should tell him I guess I represent you quite well Mister.

 

[Mdmommy99]

That's what I was wondering I mean my so is kinda outspoken but the fact I spend money on products and read about hair lets him know it's important to me he calls me fuzzy cause of my twists but its in a sweet way and picks on women on commercials but when it comes to me he helps with scalp massages, aphogee treatments, even washing it. I know you can't leave a marriage or relationship whenever you're upset BUT that remark goes a lot deeper than just insensitivity to me.

Awww, I don't think its that serious. Not trying to start anything or turn the thread controversial. But being married sometimes hubbys say dumb stuff. My husband and I go back and forth sometimes then laugh get over it and keep it moving. Once you're married long enough you don't quite sweat the small stuff.

 

[BoaterGirlKim]

Not saying that this is grounds for a divorce but is he always so discouraging in your hair journey?

If he's discouraging about hair, he's probably discouraging in other aspects of life. And he went beyond that - to laugh at you is degrading. Stories like this remind me why I'm happily divorced and choose to stay single unless I meet a guy who shares most of my qualities (with kindness at the top). It seems most men are insecure, and I'm quick to click a brotha who tries to cut me down with little "harmless" comments ("all I said was...") cuz I think I "got it goin on". As the Bible says, "Death and life are in the power of the tongue". You're very pretty - hope hubby's not one of those who needs to "keep you in check" because of that and just finds new criticisms once your hair is flowin'. The best revenge is success - keep positive, keep doing you, don't sink to tit-for-tat put-downs, and enjoy the attention you already get and will continue to receive being a beautiful woman with whatever length hair. Good luck

Kim

 

[LiberianGirl]

If he's discouraging about hair, he's probably discouraging in other aspects of life. And he went beyond that - to laugh at you is degrading. Stories like this remind me why I'm happily divorced and choose to stay single unless I meet a guy who shares most of my qualities (with kindness at the top). It seems most men are insecure, and I'm quick to click a brotha who tries to cut me down with little "harmless" comments ("all I said was...") cuz I think I "got it goin on". As the Bible says, "Death and life are in the power of the tongue". You're very pretty - hope hubby's not one of those who needs to "keep you in check" because of that and just finds new criticisms once your hair is flowin'. The best revenge is success - keep positive, keep doing you, don't sink to tit-for-tat put-downs, and enjoy the attention you already get and will continue to receive being a beautiful woman with whatever length hair. Good luck

Kim

I see your point but OP didn't say all that. This might have been an isolated incident.

 

[Lola Laughs]

Awww, I don't think its that serious. Not trying to start anything or turn the thread controversial. But being married sometimes hubbys say dumb stuff. My husband and I go back and forth sometimes then laugh get over it and keep it moving. Once you're married long enough you don't quite sweat the small stuff.

My feelings would have been hurt too, but ITA^^. You just can't expect men to think and be as sensitive as we are as women IMO. The smart ones learn and just say "yes baby, you look beautiful as always". I'll give OP's hubby the benfit of the doubt and assume that if he knew how much it hurt her he wouldn't have said it.

 

[BlaqBella]

If he's discouraging about hair, he's probably discouraging in other aspects of life. And he went beyond that - to laugh at you is degrading. Stories like this remind me why I'm happily divorced and choose to stay single unless I meet a guy who shares most of my qualities (with kindness at the top). It seems most men are insecure, and I'm quick to click a brotha who tries to cut me down with little "harmless" comments ("all I said was...") cuz I think I "got it goin on". As the Bible says, "Death and life are in the power of the tongue". You're very pretty - hope hubby's not one of those who needs to "keep you in check" because of that and just finds new criticisms once your hair is flowin'. The best revenge is success - keep positive, keep doing you, don't sink to tit-for-tat put-downs, and enjoy the attention you already get and will continue to receive being a beautiful woman with whatever length hair. Good luck
Kim

Not trying to step on any toes here.... but Aw man this is SOOO true..and i got the baby-t from the NCivil RightsM w/ that same qoute (first comment in your siggy)... I like the way you think!