LivingDol1
Well-Known Member
i went to a party last weekend with friends. i was introduced to a guy and we chatted for a little bit. he wasn't like, amazing but he wasn't horrible. he was just OK. conversation got dull. i told him my friends and i were leaving, and that it was nice to meet him. i said something to the effect of "maybe i'll see you around with (friend) sometime." and then he goes, "well, what's your number?"
he was not flirtatious or anything. got more of a friend vibe. whatever. it was 4 am. he'll proly forget about it and won't call me.
well he called me tonight! and i purposefully didn't answer! then, no voicemail. i was like, "Yes, that means i don't have to call him back!"
ugh, he sent me a text! saying he'd "love to take me out to dinner on saturday, if i'm free."
i'm not into him. and the way he worded it sounds like he finds me attractive and wants to take me out on a date. i don't wanna go on a date! i'm feeling totally anxious and i just sort of want to blow him off.
but he is a friend of my friend's coworker and i don't want to hurt anyone's feelings.
should i just go out with him? and maybe insist upon paying for my own food? or suggest something like, super casual?!
i totally want to get out there and date... but i'm so not interested in this guy!
i also find this frustrating b/c i feel like i'm shutting down possible friendships by shutting down these guys who ask me on dates right off the bat.
help?
he was not flirtatious or anything. got more of a friend vibe. whatever. it was 4 am. he'll proly forget about it and won't call me.
well he called me tonight! and i purposefully didn't answer! then, no voicemail. i was like, "Yes, that means i don't have to call him back!"
ugh, he sent me a text! saying he'd "love to take me out to dinner on saturday, if i'm free."
i'm not into him. and the way he worded it sounds like he finds me attractive and wants to take me out on a date. i don't wanna go on a date! i'm feeling totally anxious and i just sort of want to blow him off.
but he is a friend of my friend's coworker and i don't want to hurt anyone's feelings.
should i just go out with him? and maybe insist upon paying for my own food? or suggest something like, super casual?!
i totally want to get out there and date... but i'm so not interested in this guy!
i also find this frustrating b/c i feel like i'm shutting down possible friendships by shutting down these guys who ask me on dates right off the bat.
help?