The red really jumped out at me.
I think your characterization of speaking in tongues comes from a place of fear and a lack of understanding. And, when people are fearful of something they usually regard it and speak about it negatively, just as you have here.
I really think that you should take some time and research it or ask members of your congregation and your pastor about speaking in tongues if it is done there. You shouldn't be fearful of anything that your church supports.
Also, when posting in the Christianity Forum it is really important to think about your tone. I know I'm like the last person to say this but in order for us to have a dialogue where everyone can learn and grow it takes love and a sincere effort if avoid offensive statements/speech/attitudes. Please be careful of how you say things and what you say because I can see how many people would take offense to your statements and it would really sidetrack the discussion.
I understand completely what it means, and I have seen it several times...
People make a spectacle of themselves trying to make others believe that they are more saved than the others...
And at my church, my pastor speaks the word. We walk in, sing, hear announcement, he preaches, he holds invitation for people to accept Christ in their life, and then he leaves.
I believe that he spoke once about tongues but I won't say what I think he says because I don't want to misquote him...
But I know for a fact, as do many of the other believers, from the bible, that God gave people the gift for a reason... Today... What for? God listens to prayers in english, spanish, german, patois, whatever you want lol. So why do the gibberish in public? And how could that be a higher level if His death and resurrection ripped the temple curtains and took away the veil? We can come to the throne on the same level as everyone else, nowhere in the bible does it say another believer can reach God on a higher level than another... and please correct me and show me the verse if I'm wrong, because I have been before...
I have studied this over and over again, many discussions, etc.
I have never come across someone that can say with confidence, that speaking in tongues in public makes sense... imagine how the visitors feel when they see it?
And I work at my church I know what it takes to make sure that the word and service are presented in a manner that represents Christ in a way that will keep people open to the word, and keep them coming back.
SPEAKING IN TONGUES IS SCARY!!!!! COME ON!!! WHATS NORMAL ABOUT IT!!!!
I'm not saying its wrong but you can't tell me that if you saw it today for the first time as an adult and you would think that it was just regular... or a gift LOL. NOT A CHANCE... If anyone can say that you're not bein real LOL
At least I am honest and I say what it is LOL
Trust me, I've talked to some people that saw it for the first time, 2 of which were believers. And they all said it was scary. And the believers knew the reason too. I don't think its about fear and misunderstanding, I think its about it being scary LOL.
And about my tone... we're in cyberspace... its ok to laugh if its sarcastic...
I hope nobody is offended because... we're in cyberspace
The only way that you can be offended is if you choose to be offended, you can only respond to your perception, which is why I keep letting some of these ladies say whatever they want to me without gettin smart.
Theres no point in getting offended, just look at the words and take it with a grain of salt
you can't see facial expressions, hand motions, anything... so why not think the person just has a sense of humor, or maybe just talk about it... I mean we are in the Christian forum...