gymfreak336
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Just asking. I am currently in college and I live with my boyfriend. We have lived together for almost a year. Did anyone here live with a boyfriend in college or even now?
Lkaysgirl said:I lived with my hubby before we got married. Looking back I wish we didnt do it.
Cichelle said:I lived with my husband before we got married. I'm VERY glad we did that. It was helpful in ways that I wouldn't have imagined beforehand.
TSUprincess04 said:Why not? I don't mean to seem like I'm gettin all in your business, but I'm just curious because my boyfriend and I are sorta planning on living together after I graduate from college.
ThursdayGirl said:Howso? I am contemplating this in the months before me and the FI get married .
FloridaSunshine said:Don't do it!!!! Never have and glad that I didn't. Marriage is hard enough and when you live together before you are married, you get drama pure and simple!! I have had to listen to too many girlfriends crying their hearts out when things don't work out and they are stuck with bills that the two made while they were living together while he has moved on to the next move in.
Besides me and my husband laugh about the things we didn't know about each other before we got married that we know now...
That happens in marriage too, except then you have the extra heartache of a marriage vow down the toilet, the hideous expense of a divorce PLUS the division of community property- rarely is it as simple as moving the SO out of the house (or you out of his), it can drag for years.Blu217 said:man, you think it's hard breaking up when he lives across town, try it when he's taking his ish out of the place you shared and leaving while you're in a sobbing/raging/etc. mess on the floor. Not only was my heart empty, but now my house, my formerly safe and personal and private space felt empty and haunted, too. For years after he was gone I'd find things here or there that would remind me of him. It's too tough when you or he leaves, and God forbid he should cheat on you, especially in the place you share together.