MissJ
Well-Known Member
This is an excerpt from a book I'm reading:
Any man, whatever his age, who tells you he is still trying to "find" himself is not looking for marriage or even a serious relationship. If he tells you this, get out before you get hurt. Men work on their careers first and settle later. They know that relationships take a lot of work, and they can only concentrate on one thing at a time.
A man who is developing himself doesn't have the time to devote to the relationship. And once he's achieved his goal, he's usually a different kind of person with different needs. He will probably be attracted to someone who see him after he's successful, not before. At this point he blieves that he can do better, than you, the one who accepted him without all the trappings of success. Not fair, not kind, but true.
Has anybody ever experienced or witnessed this phenomenon? If so, please share.
Any man, whatever his age, who tells you he is still trying to "find" himself is not looking for marriage or even a serious relationship. If he tells you this, get out before you get hurt. Men work on their careers first and settle later. They know that relationships take a lot of work, and they can only concentrate on one thing at a time.
A man who is developing himself doesn't have the time to devote to the relationship. And once he's achieved his goal, he's usually a different kind of person with different needs. He will probably be attracted to someone who see him after he's successful, not before. At this point he blieves that he can do better, than you, the one who accepted him without all the trappings of success. Not fair, not kind, but true.
Has anybody ever experienced or witnessed this phenomenon? If so, please share.