shortdub78 and anyone else that is doing it. How did you find the time? I'm having a hard time managing the household and working out. It feels like it's one thing or the other. My house is a mess and my 8 month old isn't sleeping at night or napping during the day for that matter, so I am straight up exhausted. I know that everyone says you have to take time for you, but when I don't stay on top of the household stuff it's too much stress for me the next day. And I feel like I am so tanked I don't have energy to invest in DD, she's four. A little background, the hubs and I bought our home in April and our DS was born a couple of weeks later. Because I was so pregnant when we were packing/moving, my husband did a lot of the "organizing", bless his heart. Lol! So it's not just keeping the house clean, and cooking meals. It's unpacking and organizing on top of everything else. It's after midnight, and I'm just sitting down. And I'm already up early in the morning and don't go to bed at late. It's strange, but the best thing for my weight loss is actually sleeping. I mean that goooooood sleep. I'm ranting... Thank God for this forum. I really mean it. Having the support of you ladies means so much.
I would get up at 5am when the kids are still sleep. And everything you are going through, I went through as well. I'm not a clean freak, but I don't function well in clutter. It's kind of hard to clean up during the day, so I clean up at night, or early in the morning.
When I was with ex dh, I stayed at home with the kids, so once I got them settled at night, I would clean for an hour. Now my SO works far away, so he doesn't come back until the weekend. On the days I'm home, i have my little one with me during the day. I just pick up here and there. I also try to get some cleaning, or self care done when he is napping. Sometimes, I take a nap with him.
My kids are little tornados, so I have no choice but to stay on top of things. When I was married, I used to fight my husband all of the time about wanting him to help out more. I started to get extremely resentful towards him. But now, I have no choice, but to just get it done. There is nobody else to help! Lol so I just dig in.
There are days when I'm superwoman, and there are days I'm like just don't burn the house down. Like this weekend, I decided to just take some time for me. I got to wash my hair in peace! I took a long shower! I exfoliated, I shaved, etc..!
Lol it's 3:34am and I'm up having quiet time. I'm about to get started on laundry, and clean these bathrooms! I don't get much sleep. 5-6 hours at the most. Since you have a dh that is helpful, talk to him about setting some time up for you to take care of self! It could be a couple of days a week for an hour or two?
I know my post is long, but I understand everything! I was bed written when I was pregnant with my daughter, but I still had a one year to care for. I still cleaned and maintained because I it needed to be done, and nobody else was gonna do it. I wanted to lose weight so bad after I had my second child, so I would wake up early, get my water, and do turbo jam! Other days, I would use my Dumbbells and use body weight.
When I was single with no kids, I worked nights, so I would get home in the morning and work out before I went to bed. As far as eating, I didn't have a lavish menu. I came up with a menu that was pretty simple and I new that it would work for me. So I didn't have to figure out calories, etc... Since I was consistently eating the same things. I believe once you get into maintenance mode, you can start adding more foods into the mix slowly. This way you can see what is working for you.