Wow, I had no idea you felt that way. I thought you were like a natchal guru.
Whenever you do finally get it together, look out world!
I can relate. Even though my 4 year old has 3a hair, when it hit waistlength I was completely overwhelmed. And I've been doing his hair all his life. (
And don't nobody say nothing - I said it! My boy has waistlength hair! ) But once I learned different shampooing techniques and tools washing his hair became a breeze again. A good leave in and my Denman detangling comb and now he won't even let his Dad wash his hair anymore.
It's all about knowing what works for your head no matter the type.
I was relaxed from 18-34 and had a beautiful head of hair. From 7th grade (about 12 or 13?) I had a leisure curl. From about 4 to 7th grade pressed. I transitioned successfully for a year. Had 4-5 inches of new growth with very little shedding. I've been natural again since 2/28/09 and am loving it.
I'll say I'm an advanced red comb. I won't claim black until I master rollersetting, cornrowing and braiding. But I'm constantly taking question from people about hair care and giving advice.
I picked purple before I'd read all the choices. It's my favorite color.