ElizaBlue
Well-Known Member
Any advice ladies?
Well let me say this upfront. Yeah we met online. We have been talking and camming up for about 2 months. He is so so sweet. I've talked to his mom, sister, neices, brother on the phone or web cam.
It was my idea to come to South Carolina to meet so soon. I don't want to spend a lot of time talking before actually seeing him in person. He was planning to come here at the end of July. But oh well, me is me.
We sleep together every night....on cam. This was his idea initially so that I could see what goes on in his house. I'm sort of skeptical after the last guy I met online. So suffice to say, we are the first person each other sees when we wake up. My insomnia is a lot better now...that's strange. We talk on the phone all the time and he is very consistent. He doesn't hesitate to apologize if he thinks he's said something that might even remotely hurt my feelings.
He owns his own home and has run a successful business for the last 9 years. He's divorced with no children. While he's not degreed his business acumen is very on point. He's sort of a nerd. We both love computers and technology.
He has made a laundry list of things to do when he comes here, such as sheetrock repair, install a satellite in my home, fix my computer router and set up my home network, and fix some things at my parents house as well.
What else? I don't know we have just become very very close like inseparable these past two months. We think alike, make decisions alike, like the same foods, dislike the same things. Like for example we both hate people being loud in public or being embarassed in public. I cannot tell you how many men I have met of late that said " oh I like to make jokes when I'm out and oh yeah I'm a flirt in public or I will get you to loosen up". Uh no. This guy is very quiet and reserved like me.
Oh yeah, we have a chemistry that is pretty close to explosive. We've decided that on this initial trip nothing will happen unless we both decide to make a full bonafide committment. We will do what is best for us as a couple for the long run. He is willing to relocate to where I live. He has sent me flowers to my home and job. He just does this out of the blue or if I have a closing or if I just have a particularly bad day on the day job.
He only responds to his parents with "yes mam and no sir". His mom told me that he talks to me so much and about me so much she feels like she already knows me. This morning she said that she really hopes to get to meet me soon. She doesn't know it will be this weekend. We will be attending church with her. I'm a bit nervous about that.
One more thing. The ex that I thought I would never get over last year? Well I did. He is but a hazy memory now. I don't even know why I ever wasted my time on him. They are truly night and day. The ex was a pathological liar and I would catch him in multiple inconsistencies throughout the day. I have not experienced any of this with new guy. If I ask him something or want clarification about something he said he is more than happy to repeat it or explain it to my satisfaction.
But how crazy is this, they could be twins. Except my future BF is better looking. Shorter at 5"10 but way better looking. He used to be a model. Oh and he's 6 years younger than me.
So...yeah...I'm...getting...a....bit...excited. I went and bought a couple of new outfits. He told me to just wait until I got there and he would take me shopping because he wanted to find out what I liked. Smile.
Okay ladies, give me your best shot.
Well let me say this upfront. Yeah we met online. We have been talking and camming up for about 2 months. He is so so sweet. I've talked to his mom, sister, neices, brother on the phone or web cam.
It was my idea to come to South Carolina to meet so soon. I don't want to spend a lot of time talking before actually seeing him in person. He was planning to come here at the end of July. But oh well, me is me.
We sleep together every night....on cam. This was his idea initially so that I could see what goes on in his house. I'm sort of skeptical after the last guy I met online. So suffice to say, we are the first person each other sees when we wake up. My insomnia is a lot better now...that's strange. We talk on the phone all the time and he is very consistent. He doesn't hesitate to apologize if he thinks he's said something that might even remotely hurt my feelings.
He owns his own home and has run a successful business for the last 9 years. He's divorced with no children. While he's not degreed his business acumen is very on point. He's sort of a nerd. We both love computers and technology.
He has made a laundry list of things to do when he comes here, such as sheetrock repair, install a satellite in my home, fix my computer router and set up my home network, and fix some things at my parents house as well.
What else? I don't know we have just become very very close like inseparable these past two months. We think alike, make decisions alike, like the same foods, dislike the same things. Like for example we both hate people being loud in public or being embarassed in public. I cannot tell you how many men I have met of late that said " oh I like to make jokes when I'm out and oh yeah I'm a flirt in public or I will get you to loosen up". Uh no. This guy is very quiet and reserved like me.
Oh yeah, we have a chemistry that is pretty close to explosive. We've decided that on this initial trip nothing will happen unless we both decide to make a full bonafide committment. We will do what is best for us as a couple for the long run. He is willing to relocate to where I live. He has sent me flowers to my home and job. He just does this out of the blue or if I have a closing or if I just have a particularly bad day on the day job.
He only responds to his parents with "yes mam and no sir". His mom told me that he talks to me so much and about me so much she feels like she already knows me. This morning she said that she really hopes to get to meet me soon. She doesn't know it will be this weekend. We will be attending church with her. I'm a bit nervous about that.
One more thing. The ex that I thought I would never get over last year? Well I did. He is but a hazy memory now. I don't even know why I ever wasted my time on him. They are truly night and day. The ex was a pathological liar and I would catch him in multiple inconsistencies throughout the day. I have not experienced any of this with new guy. If I ask him something or want clarification about something he said he is more than happy to repeat it or explain it to my satisfaction.
But how crazy is this, they could be twins. Except my future BF is better looking. Shorter at 5"10 but way better looking. He used to be a model. Oh and he's 6 years younger than me.
So...yeah...I'm...getting...a....bit...excited. I went and bought a couple of new outfits. He told me to just wait until I got there and he would take me shopping because he wanted to find out what I liked. Smile.
Okay ladies, give me your best shot.
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. Good luck on your trip and be safe. And yes I am looking forward to details later.
