SoforReal
Well-Known Member
Hey All. Need your advice. My fiance and I have been together for 5+ years. He lives in a different state than I do and we visit each other often. He has female friends(and male friends) from work and school that he keeps in touch with. I have meet most of his female friends and I didn't get any mixed vibe from them. They all seem platonic and I'm ok with them. He has a female friend who live across the country from him who he has been friends with for 20+ years(since college). She supposedly has a fiance and her own house. He also knows her family.
Back when he was looking for a job last year he was considering staying with her for a few weeks to interview for jobs and save money. Back then I didn't feel comfortable with that. Recently he admitted they had sex back in college. Now her son is graduating from high school and she invited him to his graduation.
How would you all feel about your partner keeping in touch with someone he's friends with and had sex with over 20 years ago? Second would you all feel comfortable with your mate staying with a female friend for 1-2 weeks that he was once intimate with 20 years ago? I don't think my SO has ever cheated on me and seems very loyal.
Back when he was looking for a job last year he was considering staying with her for a few weeks to interview for jobs and save money. Back then I didn't feel comfortable with that. Recently he admitted they had sex back in college. Now her son is graduating from high school and she invited him to his graduation.
How would you all feel about your partner keeping in touch with someone he's friends with and had sex with over 20 years ago? Second would you all feel comfortable with your mate staying with a female friend for 1-2 weeks that he was once intimate with 20 years ago? I don't think my SO has ever cheated on me and seems very loyal.