Farida
Well-Known Member
One of my good friends is getting married to a guy who I believe is a total fraud. But that’s a story for a day when I am not typing on my phone.
Recently she came to me and said she had an abnormal Pap smear and positive HPV and Chlamydia test.
She has been with her fiancé for about 15 months. So I expected her to be angry that he gave her STDs.
But she turns around and tells me she believes she got them from another guy. So I instantly think she cheated on her fiancé.
Nope. She believes she got it from a one night stand almost 2 years ago.
Now I know you can have asymptomatic HPV or HIV for years and not know. But can a WOMAN have asymptomatic clap for 2 years?
And her fiancé was mad at her but when calmed down he told her his friend’s wife had it for 15 years and had no idea. Now that is total BS. That leads me to believe he is telling her that story to convince her he did not give it to her.
She said in his line of work he gets tested every two years (but of course she has never seen the test results...)
Because of what I know about this guy I think he gave it to her. It’s the simplest and most likely explanation.
But ladies, maybe you can school me. Is it really possible to have chlamydia for 2 years and NOT have any symptoms?
Recently she came to me and said she had an abnormal Pap smear and positive HPV and Chlamydia test.
She has been with her fiancé for about 15 months. So I expected her to be angry that he gave her STDs.
But she turns around and tells me she believes she got them from another guy. So I instantly think she cheated on her fiancé.
Nope. She believes she got it from a one night stand almost 2 years ago.
Now I know you can have asymptomatic HPV or HIV for years and not know. But can a WOMAN have asymptomatic clap for 2 years?
And her fiancé was mad at her but when calmed down he told her his friend’s wife had it for 15 years and had no idea. Now that is total BS. That leads me to believe he is telling her that story to convince her he did not give it to her.
She said in his line of work he gets tested every two years (but of course she has never seen the test results...)
Because of what I know about this guy I think he gave it to her. It’s the simplest and most likely explanation.
But ladies, maybe you can school me. Is it really possible to have chlamydia for 2 years and NOT have any symptoms?