Does Your So Have A Female Best Friend?

[firecracker]

niqu92 I apologize for coming off so harsh. We all have different tolerance levels and moral compass. None of us are perfect or have perfect lives contrary to what some folks say or imply.

LaBelleLL I understand what you are saying about oversharing but everyone isn't as private as other and venting on this board can be theraputic for someone going thru a tuff time.

niqu92 I know this board and another one was a lifesaver for me during some really hard and trying personal times. Folks will always bring up the past or reflect on something be it positive or negative. Sometimes we need unbiased truthful different input/suggestion/opinions from strangers so vent if you want. You paid you 6.50 hell! For me I've always been more concerned with saving my arse rather than saving face. So I used this place as a dumping ground when I was a emotional wreck and learned alot of good lessons from some nice and not so nice members.

Ok off my soapbox. I wasn't judging you for rationalizing your situation or decision. Live yo life.

 

[LaBelleLL]

@niqu92 I apologize for coming off so harsh. We all have different tolerance levels and moral compass. None of us are perfect or have perfect lives contrary to what some folks say or imply.

@LaBelleLL I understand what you are saying about oversharing but everyone isn't as private as other and venting on this board can be theraputic for someone going thru a tuff time.

@niqu92 I know this board and another one was a lifesaver for me during some really hard and trying personal times. Folks will always bring up the past or reflect on something be it positive or negative. Sometimes we need unbiased truthful different input/suggestion/opinions from strangers so vent if you want. You paid you 6.50 hell! For me I've always been more concerned with saving my arse rather than saving face. So I used this place as a dumping ground when I was a emotional wreck and learned alot of good lessons from some nice and not so nice members.

Ok off my soapbox. I wasn't judging you for rationalizing your situation or decision. Live yo life.

i encouraged her to reach out to those she feels comfortable with. she can still vent. essentially, i would just hate it if this came back to her. and i've seen how some people do on this board. that's all.

 

[qchelle]

^^^^I must say this is Sh*t right here, men and women can be friends without the man wanting to hit it... Men are just like women we need friendship outside or same sex and everything is not sexual even for men.

You're a man???

Btw, I agree with your post.

 

[darlingdiva]

My husband tried to pull that mess with some girl he knows from College. She would call and I'd always get kind of salty about it. One time I was just like, "I'd really appreciate it if Kendra stopped calling here. It's very rude" And he looked at me like he was irritated.

Long story short...any girl you used to bone needs to go. I'm sorry. And he complied.

And there it is.

 

[pookaloo83]

You're a man???

Btw, I agree with your post.

Well they did say there are some me. On the board.

 

[TayMac]

Mine doesn't.

I was the best friend of a guy for a few years until he got a serious girlfriend then he had to "let me go" mostly because he always liked me as more than a friend. I understood but he was an awesome friend so I was sad for a minute.

 

[pookaloo83]

Mine doesn't.

I was the best friend of a guy for a few years until he got a serious girlfriend then he had to "let me go" mostly because he always liked me as more than a friend. I understood but he was an awesome friend so I was sad for a minute.

Aww. TayMac do you guys still talk? Is he still with the gf?

 

[yardyspice]

So are you going to start a different thread?

 

[pookaloo83]

So are you going to start a different thread?

you a mess.

 

[gabulldawg]

Wooooow. Are the pickins out there really that slim?!?!?!??!! He had sex with his FIRST cousin. Just wow. But hey OAN, that definitely gave me some insight into past behavior. I get it now.

Anyway, no my DH doesn't have a female best friend. I wouldn't tolerate it. My parents didn't grow up having besties of the opposite sex. Inappropriate for a marriage IMO.

 

[yardyspice]

you a mess.

Like you don't want to know oke:

It's messed up though and I hope she runs not walks away from the situation

 

[MomofThreeBoys]

Not exactly best, that's a dude but he does have a couple of close female friends. Both relationships are 18 years+ friendships. I have no issue and never had. We've been married 16 years.

 

[MariposaSexyGirl]

Nope. Dh and I don't do the opposite sex friend thing. I am his female best friend lol.

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[TayMac]

Aww. TayMac do you guys still talk? Is he still with the gf?

Nope we don't talk at all so I have no idea. That was 2 years ago.

 

[PracticallyMe]

No my DH does not, and I wouldn't feel comfortable with him having one.

 

[DaughterOfZion1]

I think there comes a time when all the "best friendship" has to go. Sorry. You are mine lol.

I do kind of understand the childhood friends, BUT they shouldn't be all up in each other's space, calling, texting all the time etc.

Nope.

 

[FemmeFatale]

So is it the fact the he has an emotional bond with another woman (that isn't blood) that bothers you all?

 

[NYAmicas]

Not really because she is corny and kind of looks like a dude in the face.

 

[naturalTAN]

Not really because she is corny and kind of looks like a dude in the face.

 

[lsw29]

Yes, I am his female best friend.

 

[Arcadian]

My best friend in the whole world is male and is NOT my husband. So y'all know where I'mma go with this one

-A