Does Your Man Think It's Sexy

[beingofserenity]

When you're loud in bed?

I hate the way pornstars sound, but I've realized I sound like one.

It can be kind of embarrassing especially when the guy is almost silent.

 

[Miss_C]

I thought most guys were quiet and most women emote during sex because they are the recievers. At least I hope so, men moaning and groaning all loud is not appealing to me.

 

[LeftRightRepeat]

When you're loud in bed?


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yes

 

[Honey Bee]

It can be kind of embarrassing especially when the guy is almost silent.

He's silent because he's listening to you. One of the things men pride themselves on is the ability to pleasure their woman.

 

[Jasmataz]

I asked him and he says he likes it as long as he knows it's not fake.

 

[kupenda]

He's silent because he's listening to you. One of the things men pride themselves on is the ability to pleasure their woman.

Yup. Thats what SO says. He bases what he does on how i sound. He only makes a sound on initial penetration and at the end. And not necessarily loud. It needs to be real

TMI?

 

[LiftedUp]

I'm loud too. If I'm quiet it means that I can hardly feel a thing.

 

[PeaceFlow]

....

 

[Dposh167]

I'm loud too. If I'm quiet it means that I can hardly feel a thing.

real talk

 

[lux10023]

I'm loud and I don't like a silent dh
He talks dirty just a bit and it's just enough to keep the fun going
I talk dirty we are sheet talkers lolmao

 

[TayMac]

I'm loud too. If I'm quiet it means that I can hardly feel a thing.

and therefore I'm bored.

 

[SelahOco]

Yup. Thats what SO says. He bases what he does on how i sound. He only makes a sound on initial penetration and at the end. And not necessarily loud. It needs to be real

TMI?

Nope, not tmi! That initial entry comment made me laugh cause I was gonna say the same thing.

I make more noise and he probably talks more with a "noise" at beginning and end.

 

[ElizaBlue]

We both love the ear candy...but I know the more I say...the shorter the fun.

 

[Kindheart]

I'm loud too. If I'm quiet it means that I can hardly feel a thing.

Lmao exactly . Quiet equals I m thinking of the grocery list . If I m loud you doing something right ,although sometimes I get extra to make him feel like the man .

 

[leona2025]

I want to get better at the dirty talk. I'm always embarrassed lol.

 

[HappyMadison]

Just when I am calling the divine or his name, occasionally an explicit...muffled pillow screams. I have a kitten voice/ valley voice ( complete with the vocal fry, weird, because I am from Texas) so people think I am young as hell.When I attempt to darken my timbre it goes over well too. So yeah, I do cooing quite proficient lol.

 

[FlowerHair]

We both love the ear candy...but I know the more I say...the shorter the fun.

Yep. Don't talk TOO much, then it will be all over in a second.

 

[MuziqizLyfe]

I thought most guys were quiet and most women emote during sex because they are the recievers. At least I hope so, men moaning and groaning all loud is not appealing to me.

I like making a man moan

 

[lux10023]

youd be surprised..oddly enough i dont know what it is but we always get the hotel room next to the loud couple....ive heard quite a few ppl having sex and being loud lolol

funny story but we were away the other day and i think the couple in the cabin next to us were tryna out moan us lmaoooo it was hilarioussss as every night one of us was putting on quite a show....

I thought most guys were quiet and most women emote during sex because they are the recievers. At least I hope so, men moaning and groaning all loud is not appealing to me.

 

[YesToHair!]

He finds it sexy...gets really discouraged if i don't cos he knows i ain't having fun

He just mildly groans when he gets done...

We are generally non-talkers but i remember once during a particularly good session he blasted : "Gawsh i love your p***y"...i was so stunned, this from a man who completely abhors cursing lol

 

[Miss_C]

youd be surprised..oddly enough i dont know what it is but we always get the hotel room next to the loud couple....ive heard quite a few ppl having sex and being loud lolol

funny story but we were away the other day and i think the couple in the cabin next to us were tryna out moan us lmaoooo it was hilarioussss as every night one of us was putting on quite a show....

A few moans are fine and expected or dirty talk if he's into it (I am). But i answered the OP the way I did because it made me think about that scene in Waiting to Exhale.

Man: You ready
Whitney: Ready for???
Man: GRRRRRRR
Whitney ( crazy look) Grr?
Man: GrrrrRRRRRRRRRR!!!!
Whitney (thinks) that was it?

I guess I automatically went to the worst case scenario- he's doing all that and she's not feeling a thing. My bad lol.

 

[JerriBlank]

I'm vocal. I told him this beforehand, and he said that he doesn't like talkers. Lmfao! Wrong, he just didn't didn't know that he liked a talker.
He now talks as well, but it took a while for my convo to stop hitting him like a brick wall. Lol. I'd say something, his eyes would get huge and just out of the blue...womp, womp, womp.
He stopped me once during the act and said for me to stop saying xyz, because it ends things quickly. Lollll, good times, whew!

Don't stop being vocal boo! Keep it fun!

 

[FlowerHair]

I thought about this thread the other day when I heard my neighbors doing it. I've never heard them before, so I was just like "yeah! go for it!!!" LOL! I only heard the woman though...

Good for them.

 

[FlowerHair]

I'm vocal. I told him this beforehand, and he said that he doesn't like talkers. Lmfao! Wrong, he just didn't didn't know that he liked a talker.
He now talks as well, but it took a while for my convo to stop hitting him like a brick wall. Lol. I'd say something, his eyes would get huge and just out of the blue...womp, womp, womp.
He stopped me once during the act and said for me to stop saying xyz, because it ends things quickly. Lollll, good times, whew!

Don't stop being vocal boo! Keep it fun!

LOL! I remember when @Zaynab said to say "I want you to finish in my mouth" or something similar when you want things to end quickly. I've used that one a few times...

 

[Zaynab]

When you're loud in bed?

I hate the way pornstars sound, but I've realized I sound like one.

It can be kind of embarrassing especially when the guy is almost silent.

Yes. I'm loud.

I think they like the sounds They want you to seem like you're sooo into it

 

[Zaynab]

Nope, not tmi! That initial entry comment made me laugh cause I was gonna say the same thing.

I make more noise and he probably talks more with a "noise" at beginning and end.

That's the best feeling ever, it never gets old

 

[Zaynab]

LOL! I remember when @Zaynab said to say "I want you to finish in my mouth" or something similar when you want things to end quickly. I've used that one a few times...

It never fails to work either

 

[PrissiSippi]

I asked him and he says he likes it as long as he knows it's not fake.

Yeah it has to be genuine. Or at least sound genuine. Not over the top. If so they love it.

 

[PrissiSippi]

LOL! I remember when @Zaynab said to say "I want you to finish in my mouth" or something similar when you want things to end quickly. I've used that one a few times...

Man bruh y'all are the real MVPs. I can't do it. I can't even say it. Gotta get my weight up hahaha.

 

[SelahOco]

Man bruh y'all are the real MVPs. I can't do it. I can't even say it. Gotta get my weight up hahaha.

I find it ends quickly if I just do a little cheerleading.

"You not gone "cookie" for me? Huh? Give me some "cookie". Pleeeeeeeease."

It is over in seconds.

The power of words on the mind and body is amazing. Especially during sex. The things that excite people are so interesting.