and it's the only time that i like running for the bus cause that wind blowing through your hair is addictive. That convinced her 
, but I thought it was interesting that she asked. I don't even look mixed ...
You and your daughter's hair is so pretty.Been meaning to tell you that.
Been meaning to tell you that.
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This just goes to show that some white people are so ignorant when it comes to our hair among other thingsWhy can't we have good hair and long hair that is ours, without people thinking it's a weave
This upsets me and frightens me. I want to wear my hair down often. I keep it up mainly now.
same here!
this is why I'm anti-weave
Even my mother tells me my hair looks like a wig when it's straight, but I take it as a compliment! One time I left the Dominican salon and they have a Latin/Caribe grocery right next door. I went in to stock up on things I can't buy around my way and the men in there were just chatting me up. The stock boy kept following me and asking did I need him to push my cart. I let him
Can't wait til I get on yo level. 
Sad but true.Yeah, too many of us are wearing weave like it's their hair. Weave, wigs and anything that's not natural should only be worn occationally not as a lifestyle unless you have hair loss. And then you are suppose to make it look natural not flaunt that its fake!
I don't think my hair looks fake but a lot of people seem to think it does!
My hairdresser was the greatest, she knew how to cut your hair to compliment your face.
Can we say "Filipinas, Hawaiins and other polynesian groups"? Butts & lips on the prettiest of them!
OK!! These women and Indian women are the ones that really have long hair.
When I went to Hawaii for the first time, my entire perception about what I thought was long hair completely changed. I've always been kind of a snob about it but now I am much worse!
I know it all too well, I had this girl just totally stop talking to me after she saw my hair out one day.
i noticed that white people react more when my hair is curly. they really trip over it and cant believe how soft it is. that just amazes them
black people in general tend to react more to my str8 hair than curly. it seems, the more bone str8 the better
Men reeeeaaaaally love hair apparently. I didn't really notice this until....
1. A guy I had just started spending time with looked over at me when we were driving in his car and said "yeah, your hair is long enough for me to date you".AND he said it with a straight face, like he was serious!
2. After I cut my hair about 12 yrs ago into a Halle Berry type style (I think I've done just about EVERYTHING with my hair), I became bored with it and got a weave. Walking into the salon, nobody paid me any mind and it was a salon/barber shop and I had to walk past the guys first. Couple hours later as I was leaving, dudes were FALLING OVER THEMSELVES to talk to me in the shop and on the 20 second walk to my car. All the while I'm thinking, didn't these fools just see me walk in here?
3. I'm friends with my ex-boyfriend, but I only see him like 2 or 3 times a year. EVERY time he sees me now, his eyes look like they glaze over when he admires my hair. The entire time we dated, my hair was in a short cut. It's as if he's enamored with my hair or something.
4. My business partner is partial to longer hair on women. I'm about an inch from APL and he's a BSL and longer monger, but he is always looking at my hair when I do it and finds always some excuse to flip it and stuff.
5. My clients are particularly more lecherous nowerplexed
6. My SO can't keep his hands and nose out of my hair. Sometimes he's a little rough
I guess I'd forgotten how big they were on hair considering I wore my hair short and shorter for 12 consecutive years.
BTW, I have stopped traffic before, but unless he was checking for hair on my assets, I don't think that's why dude almost caused and accident
I was going into a pizza shop once, double parked, so I ran to the door and when I opened it the wind blew my hair up and it fell down all graceful like. These guys were sitting at a table by the window and I noticed they seemed to stop talking when I walked in. One of them said "Can you do that again?" I turned and said "What?". He said, "Walk through that door again so your hair blows" His boy did a swish-swoosh sound and made a motion with his hand going back and forth. I just smiled and laughed it off.
My hair wasn't long, it was about 2-3 inchs past shoulder but it was feathery and healthy.
When I was in H.S. it seemed like everyone was getting hair cuts, shaved in the back bob like hair cuts and Halle Berry cuts and my hair was always a little past the shoulder, always. Getting of the bus walking me home one day I told a guy friend that I was thinking about cutting my hair. He stopped in his tracks and said "WHAT!? You know how many girls want your hair!!" Then he yoked me up and said "Don't EVER cut your hair, hear me? Promise me!" I was like 'OK! I was just thinking about it!" Then he calmed down and we kept walking and talking like nothing happened.
The bolded sums up my thoughts on this hair thing.. men are so darn simple-minded sometimes. I still can't believe how drastically different men who see me all the time will react based on my clothes or hair that day. I just think wow, you guys are easily manipulated huh... smh.
. I got into my car and was about to pull into traffic when this white man comes running toward my car flagging me down. Of course I thought there was something wrong with my car. So I stopped, rolled down my windows and asked him what's going on. He said: "I just had to tell that you are hot! I hope you're not offended or anything. That's all." and with that he waved and kept on walking. That made my week!
LunaGorgeous Wow that's awesome ... if you're ever having a down day you should remember this incident :yes:LunaGorgeous said:I can't say for sure if I've stopped traffic, since I typically have my earphones in and am oblivious to non-perilous situations when I'm outside
However...I did make a guy fall down a flight of stairs.
I wear my hair in its natural state, typically up with some hair toys, but this day my curls were out and about. I used to tutor at my college and was taking a break from my shift, on my way to the restroom when I hear someone saying "Hey, hey! Hey beautiful--HEY!!!," and heard some shuffling (him tripping and falling.) Now, I heard him but wasn't paying any attention because we were in the hallway, and he could have been talking to anyone. I felt that certain energy that his comments were directed towards me so I looked, and he was talking to me, picking himself up from the landing. And then he was like,"see you're so beautiful you made me fall down the stairs! Your hair, your everything, just wow girl!" Needless to say I was little dumbfounded at the awkward situation...lol
