Do u need to be turned on, 4-played or fondled with to color?

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My SO always teases me about how I don't need all the pre-game show to do the do and how I'm usually like you're ready :look:......ok..let's go! :grin:


He told me I'm the only woman that he has ever known to just go in on him without any form of four-play. He likes all of that stuff and prefers to be turned on before coloring and to build tension.

I don't know why that is, but I don't require all of the pecking, caressing and munching.

I mean it's nice and I like that my SO wants to do all of that for me but I really don't need it. :ohwell:
 
I need it, but only a couple of minutes worth - I get impatient and feel like he's teasing me. Which, he usually is, but :blah: :lol:

When I don't want the warm-up, I usually tell him I want a quickie. :lol: It rarely ends up being 'quick', but that's our 'signal'.
 
It depends on how old the relationship is, lol. Brand new? Then no, not so much. Been together for 5 years? Then yes, I need it.:lachen:


Eh that might be true. :lachen:

I wonder if that's how he is feeling about us since it's been 3yrs :look::perplexed
 
I do enjoy the pregame show. For the most part I guess I don't "need" it, but it is nice. A lot of times if we build things up before we see each other (i.e., sexy text messages) then we can just go at it. No 4play necessary. :lol:
 
I do enjoy the pregame show. For the most part I guess I don't "need" it, but it is nice. A lot of times if we build things up before we see each other (i.e., sexy text messages) then we can just go at it. No 4play necessary. :lol:

That's a form of foreplay. You have been stimulated so you're already ready to go.:yep:
 
I need all three unless Im under the influence. When Im wasted, my sexual prowess is at its peak so I dont need assistance then.
 
I am a moody woman so it all depends on my mood whether I need to rip his buttons off or need candles and foreplay.
 
I do enjoy the pregame show. For the most part I guess I don't "need" it, but it is nice. A lot of times if we build things up before we see each other (i.e., sexy text messages) then we can just go at it. No 4play necessary. :lol:

:lachen:I wish I was good at texting.
 
i dont need it to get my engine goign since its always on full blast---but i expect foreplay sometimes and he knows when to go for the foreplay versus--rip my clothes off mode etc etc
 
After a couple of drinks no cause I am ready! But heck who cares I only c my dh every 4-6 months just to know he is on the plane I am like Niagra Falls. FYI he will b hom 12/21/2009. :grin:
 
My SO likes passionate coloring that's filled with tension, I had to learn how to build tension and create high intensity passion. He didn't think I could pull it off since I wasn't all that in to it.

Well boi did I surprised him two weekends ago and BIG TIME! :grin:

I had real authentic sexual energy moving throughout the house,:kiss2: so high SO ended up kicking the bedroom door in. :lachen:

Trust me I shocked myself :)


I enjoy foreplay way much more than actual coloring and would not like intercourse without it.

Oh wow!
 
My SO likes passionate coloring that's filled with tension, I had to learn how to build tension and create high intensity passion. He didn't think I could pull it off since I wasn't all that in to it.

Well boi did I surprised him two weekends ago and BIG TIME! :grin:

I had real authentic sexual energy moving throughout the house,:kiss2: so high SO ended up kicking the bedroom door in. :lachen:

Trust me I shocked myself :)




Oh wow!

Any tips? :look: :lol:
 
It seems the older I get (I'm 42) the less I need it. It seems I am always ready, willing, and able these days. It's always good lately no matter what, foreplay no foreplay I'm up for it all.
 
My SO likes passionate coloring that's filled with tension, I had to learn how to build tension and create high intensity passion. He didn't think I could pull it off since I wasn't all that in to it.

Well boi did I surprised him two weekends ago and BIG TIME! :grin:

I had real authentic sexual energy moving throughout the house,:kiss2: so high SO ended up kicking the bedroom door in. :lachen:

Trust me I shocked myself :)




Oh wow!

You must PLEASE give us some examples of what you did to have him kicking in doors. You can PM me if you want.:grin:
 
I don't believe I am about to discuss this...
I need a bit of 4play. My SO gets turned on my my reaction so I am always happy that we have just a bit but sometimes I am already where I need to be just from being in his presence.
 
I like it but it's not always needed. It also depends on how fine the the dude is looking that day. I can just look at them and be ready.

I had an ex tell me one time that he was not a piece of meat so I had to slow it down.
 
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