Sarah works in a different team in a different building.
She asked my team if we would like to join her team's xmas lunch.
2 of us initially said yes.
I agreed with her that she would book our place in the restaurant and I would pay my deposit seperately (i was to call the restaurant and pay over the phone).
I now can't make it but hadn't gotten round to telling her but thought everything would be fine because no deposit was paid.
Today she called my colleague and told her that she had paid our £10 deposits.
I am pi**ed because that's not what we agreed. Yes, it was a kind gesture but she made it very clear that she couldn't afford to pay our deposits in the first place.
Whar do you think? Should I just give her the money back?
She asked my team if we would like to join her team's xmas lunch.
2 of us initially said yes.
I agreed with her that she would book our place in the restaurant and I would pay my deposit seperately (i was to call the restaurant and pay over the phone).
I now can't make it but hadn't gotten round to telling her but thought everything would be fine because no deposit was paid.
Today she called my colleague and told her that she had paid our £10 deposits.
I am pi**ed because that's not what we agreed. Yes, it was a kind gesture but she made it very clear that she couldn't afford to pay our deposits in the first place.
Whar do you think? Should I just give her the money back?
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