sashaa
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I am 8 weeks preg and my bf makes so many excuses as to why he can not stay over for more than 1 day or so at a time. It is getting so old and I am feeling so alone right now. He is such an excuse giver and so immature!
I am tired of feeling alone and crying when he makes an excuse as to why he cant be around (gas, cause he has his own place and does not live at my house, etc.)
I am tired of it and have told him before to frik off and I will just holla when the baby comes. He acts like that is the last thing he wants and that he loves me , blah blah but he can not be grown up enough to STOP making excuses for why he cant be around more than 1 day overnight at a time even after claiming to bring stuff to have at my house so its not a problem. I guess he meant enough for 1 overnight stay. This is BS and I am feeling so alone in this matter.
I do not and will not force and fight with someone to want to be around, if he did then simply, he would. It hurts to hammer your point in someones head when they dont get it knowing they dont get it cause they dont want to- especially giving that the point is simple.
Maybe it is just my hormones but I dont feel like I am being unrealistic and doing him wrong as he seems to think! What is wrong with wanting the person who got you this way to be around?! I just told him to forget it and I will let him know as statuses change on the baby, but aside from that not to show his face. I rather him not come around at all vs. coming around when he wants to! what about what I need!
I dont feel that it matters so my approach is if he cant be around when I need him then dont come around when he feels like it. I dont need the favors...
Anybody else preg or been in this situation where you felt so alone. How did you deal/cope?
I am tired of feeling alone and crying when he makes an excuse as to why he cant be around (gas, cause he has his own place and does not live at my house, etc.)
I am tired of it and have told him before to frik off and I will just holla when the baby comes. He acts like that is the last thing he wants and that he loves me , blah blah but he can not be grown up enough to STOP making excuses for why he cant be around more than 1 day overnight at a time even after claiming to bring stuff to have at my house so its not a problem. I guess he meant enough for 1 overnight stay. This is BS and I am feeling so alone in this matter.
I do not and will not force and fight with someone to want to be around, if he did then simply, he would. It hurts to hammer your point in someones head when they dont get it knowing they dont get it cause they dont want to- especially giving that the point is simple.
Maybe it is just my hormones but I dont feel like I am being unrealistic and doing him wrong as he seems to think! What is wrong with wanting the person who got you this way to be around?! I just told him to forget it and I will let him know as statuses change on the baby, but aside from that not to show his face. I rather him not come around at all vs. coming around when he wants to! what about what I need!
I dont feel that it matters so my approach is if he cant be around when I need him then dont come around when he feels like it. I dont need the favors...
Anybody else preg or been in this situation where you felt so alone. How did you deal/cope?