mieshae
New Member
Here is the thing ladies,
Would you deal with this or not, I have been married for about 5yrs. For five years we have had our share of problems. So many I don't care to name. I thought that in all of this we would be closer now, but we are not. So my problem is out of everything we have been through our sex life is horrible. We have sex on average about 1 time a month sometime 1 every other month. I have gotten really frustrated with this in the past. He tells me that I need to think about other things that mean something and then I won't be so focused on the sex thing. Well over the years I have gotten used to it and I don't desire it as much either. I mean to be honest when we do it is not really great so I am like what is the use. Where the dilima takes place is I am 29!!! I can't say I can deal with this the rest of my life. I am going to want to have sex sometime. I mean I have taken the lead sometimes in the past and have gotten shot down! This is really tough when all of my married friends are complaining about too much sex and how they want a break!! What you do? think? or feel? (you know most men cheat when they feel the way I do, I have not, but what am to do)
Would you deal with this or not, I have been married for about 5yrs. For five years we have had our share of problems. So many I don't care to name. I thought that in all of this we would be closer now, but we are not. So my problem is out of everything we have been through our sex life is horrible. We have sex on average about 1 time a month sometime 1 every other month. I have gotten really frustrated with this in the past. He tells me that I need to think about other things that mean something and then I won't be so focused on the sex thing. Well over the years I have gotten used to it and I don't desire it as much either. I mean to be honest when we do it is not really great so I am like what is the use. Where the dilima takes place is I am 29!!! I can't say I can deal with this the rest of my life. I am going to want to have sex sometime. I mean I have taken the lead sometimes in the past and have gotten shot down! This is really tough when all of my married friends are complaining about too much sex and how they want a break!! What you do? think? or feel? (you know most men cheat when they feel the way I do, I have not, but what am to do)