dragongirlmk09
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hi everyone i have recently started talking to a older men i am 22 he is 31 do you think that is to old for me.
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hi everyone i have recently started talking to a older men i am 22 he is 31 do you think that is to old for me.
As long as you feel comfortable and not feeling like a)daddys little girl or b)like a russian order bride then there nothing wrong with dating a older man.I actually prefer them over my age 23..bc Im fluffy young dudes only want you little skinny things with the big bums..a older man is able to appreciate this fine wine over here..
You know, you bring up your weight a lot in threads about men. It's like a complex or something.
What's up with that?
Well it not a complex its just reality.Im not seen as a average chick.I have had some really jacked issues with dudes that seem to stem from my looks.Im sorry that it has caused you to have to reply to my post.
hi everyone i have recently started talking to a older men i am 22 he is 31 do you think that is to old for me.
Yes.
I am personally inclined to think something is "wrong" with him. Why does he want to date someone so young? Why don't women his age want him? What has he accomplished in his 31 years that he has commonality with a 22 yo?
I hear you, but it all depends on the people involved. I've realized lately that my views on coupling are heavily shaped by american culture and that in the big picture, marriages between older men/younger women have always been very common in a variety of cultures.
I know an engaged couple where the woman is 21 and he is 31. I side eye them a bit cause she seems so young and hasn't finished her education, doesn't have a full-time job, and still lives with her parents. He is divorced but his maturity level and personality don't seem far off from hers in a lot of ways. He still seems to be finding his way career wise..seems like they both can grow together in the long run, though I do feel the girl is very naive about his past baggage... He has other women his age interested but maybe he can't handle a woman closer to his age who has it together because he would be intimidated and feel pressured.
I do think some men choose much younger women because they tend to be more naive and have lower expectations, they can be her knight in shining armor. However, that doesn't mean it's always a bad thing if the guy is responsible and has a good heart.. . Water rises to its own level.
I don't know. In my opinion, it seems the 30 year old scrubs just go out and find a 20 year old. They aren't judged as harshly by the younger ladies, because they are more naive and prob. flattered by the older male. They are basically on the same level because they are both just "starting" out so to speak. It doesn't mean the person is a bad person, but I would be more inclined to figure out WHY does this man have such a commonality with a 20 yo? What have you done in the past 10 years with your life that you find a 20 soooo compelling? More than likely, not much.
I don't buy it.
Just my opinion.
I agree with you, cause I wondered about this with the couple I referred to above.
Thing is, I wonder what men think about this issue.. a lot of them seem to appreciate young women that seem baggage free and moldable.