Good for you! I assume you’re doing a broad STD test that includes HIV? Your friends are crazy. Nobody is worth putting your health at risk. Pure foolishness.
Yea, I told my FH to get a full std panel before we could have sex. He, too, said no one's ever required that of him before smh. And yes, of course, we will get tested once a year at our yearly physical.
Idk how people be living yo lol smh.
When I was still dating it was a requirement for me along with routine follow up testing. Any dude that protested was not worth my time and never got access to my cookies. Simple as that.
My husband is in the military and gets it as part of his job. I do mine at least yearly with my annual checkup/physical.
Yep. All my doctors roll their eyes and say fine.
See I don’t think many women are raising the question. Maybe in fear of rejection?
Maaaaan they should want to be rejected by these dudes
No woman should be that fearful of losing a man. The risk is not worth it. They may be doing him a favor as well as he may discover that someone from his past (or present) may have given him an STD that he never considered.I just hung up with a couple girlfriends who were appalled when I said that I request an HIV test up front. I did with beau and will do it again. If they say no, that’s a dealbreaker.
They said I was crazy and the beau was an exception to number of men who will respond favorably.
WHAT?!!!
No woman should be that fearful of losing a man. The risk is not worth it. They may be doing him a favor as well as he may discover that someone from his past (or present) may have given him an STD that he never considered.
This is an eye and mind awakening topic. Good for you! Don't stop sharing this with people, both male and female.Agreed but I bet there are a ton of women who “hear you” but are still fearful. Just a guess based upon the sheer volume of women compromising themselves in other areas—HIV and STD testing is just one of the many areas.
This is an eye and mind awakening topic. Good for you! Don't stop sharing this with people, both male and female.
We live in a society where one cannot afford to be unaware.
Most doctors these days have online portals where you can see your lab results. I would have him pull up his results on the portal.do you have his doctor send you the report, or take his word for it?
do you have his doctor send you the report, or take his word for it?
do you have his doctor send you the report, or take his word for it?
Most doctors these days have online portals where you can see your lab results. I would have him pull up his results on the portal.