Blyss_curls
Well-Known Member
Recently viewed Lisa Ling's show featuring Swingers (think it originally aired quite a while ago).
I was surprised to see a black woman featured..., which made me feel bad. I get mad when those outside of the culture stereotype and pidgeon hole us as only participating in certain activities, behaviors, etc.
Also, my nail tech once shared w/me that she'd viewed a swingers episode of HBO's Real *ex. She said if her husband was into it, she would totally be open to it--which surprised me. (yes, she is black, catholic, married, etc.)
So in an effort to be more open minded on this issue, I thought I'd start a thread/discussion on it.
I'll start.
No, I could not be a swinger. I don't want my partner to color in anyone else's book....nor do I want anyone else, coloring his. But think it's interesting that others do this.
Please have an open mind. Please utilize civility and no judgements of other's sharing their choices in this thread.
I was surprised to see a black woman featured..., which made me feel bad. I get mad when those outside of the culture stereotype and pidgeon hole us as only participating in certain activities, behaviors, etc.
Also, my nail tech once shared w/me that she'd viewed a swingers episode of HBO's Real *ex. She said if her husband was into it, she would totally be open to it--which surprised me. (yes, she is black, catholic, married, etc.)
So in an effort to be more open minded on this issue, I thought I'd start a thread/discussion on it.
I'll start.
No, I could not be a swinger. I don't want my partner to color in anyone else's book....nor do I want anyone else, coloring his. But think it's interesting that others do this.
Please have an open mind. Please utilize civility and no judgements of other's sharing their choices in this thread.
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