ElizaBlue
Well-Known Member
Background:
We divorced in 2014...six months later he remarried. He's supposed to be over the moon happy. But yet...YET while I've never reached out to him...every couple of months or so I get some type of communication from him. It's either a "mistake" text to his new wife...so apologies to me I sent that to you by mistake...something random like "can you pick up another bottle of wine" type text. Or it's a long missive of an email pouring out his heart about something he thinks I think...or today a long ass email itemizing all the reasons why he needs to be vindicated form every single issue we ever had....
Here is a brief excerpt:
"I hope that this finds you and your family in good health, and blessed. I know that the last few times I reached out, you maintained radio silence, so I'm praying that today is no exception.
I want to clear up some things that have been dogging my thoughts pretty much since before the marriage ended. Perhaps they are things that you no longer think about and I'm hoping that after today, they'll be things I don't think about either. Believe it or not, I have actually achieved and found happiness, I'm not saying this in a bragging way or trying to throw anything in your face so please don't think that I hope that we spent enough time together that you know that I'm not that type of person.
one of the last things you told me was that it was your wish to see me smiling and happy with someone that I love and loves me, so if you meant it, it has happened. God has truly blessed me, I'm doing better financially than I've ever done,...
2. Regarding me purposely trying to annoy you. I could never quite get the hang of the correct way that you liked the towels folded, perhaps it was simple to you, but there were times I felt like a Buffon because it wasn't easy for me.
Reality: since i only washed towels once every two weeks on avg. I would forget the correct way to fold them, but that, nor my driving or anything else, was done to annoy you, if it did happen to annoy you, it wasn't purposely. "
This was number 2 of like 14 items. And he always says....I will never contact you again...yet still does. Different phones numbers, different emails...so he obviously knows I'm blocking his methods of contact.
Why if you're so happy with this new person am I even in your mind. This dude was unborned the day he moved out. The only time he comes up is when I'm making a list of what not to do or....we need a punch line for joke...
Dear Ex Husband ....in the event you're lurking on this board...as you might well be...yeah...the worst has come to past we all laugh at you...now please go away and live your now perfect life...because you never should have happened to me.
Eliza Blue
We divorced in 2014...six months later he remarried. He's supposed to be over the moon happy. But yet...YET while I've never reached out to him...every couple of months or so I get some type of communication from him. It's either a "mistake" text to his new wife...so apologies to me I sent that to you by mistake...something random like "can you pick up another bottle of wine" type text. Or it's a long missive of an email pouring out his heart about something he thinks I think...or today a long ass email itemizing all the reasons why he needs to be vindicated form every single issue we ever had....
Here is a brief excerpt:
"I hope that this finds you and your family in good health, and blessed. I know that the last few times I reached out, you maintained radio silence, so I'm praying that today is no exception.
I want to clear up some things that have been dogging my thoughts pretty much since before the marriage ended. Perhaps they are things that you no longer think about and I'm hoping that after today, they'll be things I don't think about either. Believe it or not, I have actually achieved and found happiness, I'm not saying this in a bragging way or trying to throw anything in your face so please don't think that I hope that we spent enough time together that you know that I'm not that type of person.
one of the last things you told me was that it was your wish to see me smiling and happy with someone that I love and loves me, so if you meant it, it has happened. God has truly blessed me, I'm doing better financially than I've ever done,...
2. Regarding me purposely trying to annoy you. I could never quite get the hang of the correct way that you liked the towels folded, perhaps it was simple to you, but there were times I felt like a Buffon because it wasn't easy for me.
Reality: since i only washed towels once every two weeks on avg. I would forget the correct way to fold them, but that, nor my driving or anything else, was done to annoy you, if it did happen to annoy you, it wasn't purposely. "
This was number 2 of like 14 items. And he always says....I will never contact you again...yet still does. Different phones numbers, different emails...so he obviously knows I'm blocking his methods of contact.
Why if you're so happy with this new person am I even in your mind. This dude was unborned the day he moved out. The only time he comes up is when I'm making a list of what not to do or....we need a punch line for joke...
Dear Ex Husband ....in the event you're lurking on this board...as you might well be...yeah...the worst has come to past we all laugh at you...now please go away and live your now perfect life...because you never should have happened to me.
Eliza Blue
annoying AF (sorry mods), but seriously he needs to enjoy his new wife and life and gtfowtbs seriously. And so disrespectful to the new wife, where are his damned boundaries?
