I think men have changed, a bit. But we still hold the power. And I find it interesting most women think men drive the dating, they don't. If you set the standard, they must meet it. I don't need my feminists crew saying I'm blaming women, I'm not.
Example: (Because literally someone inboxed me about dating/texting and here's my reply):
In my post divorce dating, if a guy texted me, I didn't reply. Like not at all, no. If you want to seriously date me, then do so. They were then forced to either 1) stop texting/calling or 2) pick up the phone and have a conversation. I never had one that didn't pick up the phone. The thing is, I also never explained or mentioned why I never replied to any texts, if you set a standard, it stands on it's own. If you have to explain it, then what you're saying is, you don't believe/respect it yourself -then why would he? So, women are like "all he does is text, etc. I want to be called, courted." Well don't reply. Because you hold the power.