stormy07
Active Member
hey ya'll since I had asked for advice before and I got truthful answers, I promised my sister, well she's not really my sister but my best friend, anyhoo that I would ask this question.
Ok my sister had been dating this guy for about 4 months after them being close friends for 1.5 years well they broke up a couple weeks ago cuz my sister is dealing with some family issues and he is dealing with some work/family issues and she coudln't deal with his ups and downs right then cuz he was being pretty selfish...they decided that they would stay good friends for now til they both get their issues straightened out...
fast foward to saturday he invited her over to play video games...she noticed a mushy valentines day card sitting right out front...she said she jokingly asked him where was her's? (they had broken up right b4 v-day but she gave him his card right after v-day) he said that it was close to him at all times in his bookbag and that the card that was out was from his mom cuz he mom knows how much he hates v-day and she just does little stuff like that..but then he gets up and puts the card in a dresser drawer...
well my sis found that odd and when he went to the bathroom she took a peak at the card and it was signed from your future wife amanda but she didn't have time to read the whole card...so when he came back out she said she tried to find out what his moms first name was....he wouldn't tell her...so she asked if there was 'any one else' he said no but that he would tell her if there was....
to me when she told me about that card it seems really fishy to me that it wouldn't be from his mom.....but then again i do know his mom and she is a bit loopy but i still say that's above and beyond and just creepy....
my sister wants to confront him about the card more so than she did specifically she wants to ask about 'amanda' I told her she should confront him because he was acting so suispiciously....if you were in her shoes what would you do?
Ok my sister had been dating this guy for about 4 months after them being close friends for 1.5 years well they broke up a couple weeks ago cuz my sister is dealing with some family issues and he is dealing with some work/family issues and she coudln't deal with his ups and downs right then cuz he was being pretty selfish...they decided that they would stay good friends for now til they both get their issues straightened out...
fast foward to saturday he invited her over to play video games...she noticed a mushy valentines day card sitting right out front...she said she jokingly asked him where was her's? (they had broken up right b4 v-day but she gave him his card right after v-day) he said that it was close to him at all times in his bookbag and that the card that was out was from his mom cuz he mom knows how much he hates v-day and she just does little stuff like that..but then he gets up and puts the card in a dresser drawer...
well my sis found that odd and when he went to the bathroom she took a peak at the card and it was signed from your future wife amanda but she didn't have time to read the whole card...so when he came back out she said she tried to find out what his moms first name was....he wouldn't tell her...so she asked if there was 'any one else' he said no but that he would tell her if there was....
to me when she told me about that card it seems really fishy to me that it wouldn't be from his mom.....but then again i do know his mom and she is a bit loopy but i still say that's above and beyond and just creepy....
my sister wants to confront him about the card more so than she did specifically she wants to ask about 'amanda' I told her she should confront him because he was acting so suispiciously....if you were in her shoes what would you do?