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Mena

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any one use it before? how is it?

i was bored and opened up a profile....i got like 25 messages in a day im curious if i should pay and take a peek...im only 24 ...im not really looking for a relationship ...maybe someone to explore the big city with nothing serious....
 
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they have horrible customer service, imo...

i remember trying multiple times with different WORKING credit cards to become a paid member, sent numerous emails and phone calls, and nobody ever helped me. can you imagine, nobody helped me give THEM some money?

so i gave up, closed out my profile, and filed a complaint with the better business bureau.

yeah, i don't play those games....

good luck to you though, OP!
 
I'm a member.
Never had any problems.
I met my sweetie there.
On the phone with him as I type....

:heart2:
 
Check out Elizablues thread about her online boyfriend. Its a hot one and she gives loads of info for ya'll ladies looking for love in all places. :yep:
 
i think many members here are on bpm... it's fun for what it is... sometimes you meet good ones, sometimes you meet yucky ones...

oh, and just remember that 25 messages doesn't necessarily mean 25 individual messages... one of my biggest pet peeves are when people send like 10 flirts back to back... annoys me to no end!!!...
 
im not looking for love ...just fill in some dead time in my boring life :lachen: ...... im sick of always hanging with the girls
 
I joined last week and so far so good. For the most part, I get mostly 40 y.o. out-of-state men sending me messages. But I have "met" approx 4 guys in my area. So far so good.

BTW,
Im 24 in the Houston area. I see alot of GA/FL/NY men on there.
 
I checked it out...:grin:...their site is a little cluttered and jumbled looking. :nono: They need to do something about that.
 
I met my most recent ex on BPM. We dated for 3 + years.... and we are still friends (just haven't quite broken our bond) I love him dearly. We broke up because he would nasty up my home and was a space cadet that drove me bonkers!!! :spinning: we are better as friends.

eta:
He took me to lunch today :)
 
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I tried it a while back. It was OK. I closed my membership because I wasn't replying to my messages as I should. You have to be specific. For example, I flat out said that I don't want to date any guy with more than one or two kids. I know that may seem shallow but that's just how I felt. i was being generous by saying one or two. I really just meant one.
 
I have all these 30-40-50 year old men responding. I am 24. I aint trying to date some old man.
 
I'm on there, unfortunately I keep getting "flirts" from men well into their 40's+ (i'm 21 by the way) or from men I'm just not in any way attracted to. Did meet one guy (age 33) from there and went to dinner, he's perfect, except his personality absolutely sucks. that's all :look:
 
I joined, but recently closed my account.
I only met one guy in person, but we were only friends.

I fell out of contact with him, though because I moved.

I think it's good if you want to just get out and meet new people.
 
It works well it did for me. I met my SO on there almost three years ago. We lived in different states at the time we met and he eventually moved to my area. It took awhile to weed out the weird and just plain crazy folks.
 
I liked it. I met my current Boo there. I have a few friends that tried it and have had success also. It can be overwhelming though take your time. My first day I had like 300+ messages, flirts and all. I had to keep seperate folders for the people I responded to because I started getting conversations mixed up! LOL:lachen:I only responded to people I thought I might be interested in. I was super picky and that is one of the advantages of online dating.
 
I liked it. I met my current Boo there. I have a few friends that tried it and have had success also. It can be overwhelming though take your time. My first day I had like 300+ messages, flirts and all. I had to keep seperate folders for the people I responded to because I started getting conversations mixed up! LOL:lachen:I only responded to people I thought I might be interested in. I was super picky and that is one of the advantages of online dating.


yea i got a grip of messages to i was like :blush: then i started going through them....its ok
 
I was a member there back in '03 and met a really great guy. We didn't work out but are still friendly.

I was overwhelmed by all the notes too and thought that most of the men were just looking for the 'hook up':look:
 
I'm on there, unfortunately I keep getting "flirts" from men well into their 40's+ (i'm 21 by the way) or from men I'm just not in any way attracted to. Did meet one guy (age 33) from there and went to dinner, he's perfect, except his personality absolutely sucks. that's all :look:


HUH????:lachen::lachen::lachen:
 
I was a member there back in '03 and met a really great guy. We didn't work out but are still friendly.

I was overwhelmed by all the notes too and thought that most of the men were just looking for the 'hook up':look:


probably...ive gotten some weird messages and i blocked members
 

LOL!

He's the type of man who looks good on paper. Owns 2 townhouses, no kids, has a car, good job and educated BUT he would make the worst jokes (too obscene for a first date and second date) and his laugh was creepy. I'm still kinda upset it did not work out. :sad:
 
I joined yesterday morning (free profile) and checked today and there are like a zillion notes, flirts? :perplexed I don't know.... :ohwell:
 
LOL im finna sign up when i get home from work so I can see what yall talking bout.

I'm so mad dude is making vulgar jokes on the first date. i mean thats a no no till you kinda feel somebody out. but then again at least u found out asap that he's probably a weirdo and didnt waste alot of time.
 
LOL im finna sign up when i get home from work so I can see what yall talking bout.

I'm so mad dude is making vulgar jokes on the first date. i mean thats a no no till you kinda feel somebody out. but then again at least u found out asap that he's probably a weirdo and didnt waste alot of time.


Yeah, so true.
A co-worker of mine mentioned I should be happy that he was upfront about his "personality" rather than waiting until we got serious to act a fool. Guy had the nerve to call me this morning and told me to not be a stranger and call him sometime. :rolleyes:
 
LOL BPM is a mess! I have 4 days left and some prospects but they are so iffy. Mmh I think I just need to go out with some friends and meet people the old fashioned way again. As soon as school lets out I think thats exactly what Im going to do.
 
LOL BPM is a mess! I have 4 days left and some prospects but they are so iffy. Mmh I think I just need to go out with some friends and meet people the old fashioned way again. As soon as school lets out I think thats exactly what Im going to do.

It is a mess. I have only had it a few days and I want to cancel already!

If I cancel now, can I still look at messages until the month is up?
 
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