Fine 4s
Well-Known Member
Hey ladies,
Would you want your SO, FH or DH to take action because you needed him to (and that's all that matters) or because he concluded he needed to do it on his own terms or based on his own revelations. Which one matters more to you? Which one is more genuine or 'sticks' more?
I'm torn on this one. I can understand the argument that says, if something is hurtful or causes concern etc. my partner should do whatever in his/her power to eliminate that concern.
The other argument says no, S/He should do it because s/he came to their own realization that it needed to be done and not merely because his/her partner demanded them to do it.
What do you believe?
Would you want your SO, FH or DH to take action because you needed him to (and that's all that matters) or because he concluded he needed to do it on his own terms or based on his own revelations. Which one matters more to you? Which one is more genuine or 'sticks' more?
I'm torn on this one. I can understand the argument that says, if something is hurtful or causes concern etc. my partner should do whatever in his/her power to eliminate that concern.
The other argument says no, S/He should do it because s/he came to their own realization that it needed to be done and not merely because his/her partner demanded them to do it.
What do you believe?