Cincysweetie
Well-Known Member
I don't know if my subject line captures my question that well...but what I'm asking is...say you are talking to a few men at the same time and there is one in particular that you are feeling more than the others. At what time do you cut the other men out of the picture?
I ask b/c I have met a guy that I REALLY like...and some recent events (like my ex popping back up in the pic) have confirmed my feelings for him. However, we aren't official or exclusive. I'm usually not the type to put all my "eggs in one basket", however I really like this guy and wouldn't mind taking our relationship to the next level. But I have other male friends also and a part of me wants to cut them out of the picture so I can focus on the guy that I like...and the other part of me is saying I'd be crazy to do so since we aren't official. Any thoughts on this topic?
I ask b/c I have met a guy that I REALLY like...and some recent events (like my ex popping back up in the pic) have confirmed my feelings for him. However, we aren't official or exclusive. I'm usually not the type to put all my "eggs in one basket", however I really like this guy and wouldn't mind taking our relationship to the next level. But I have other male friends also and a part of me wants to cut them out of the picture so I can focus on the guy that I like...and the other part of me is saying I'd be crazy to do so since we aren't official. Any thoughts on this topic?