I'm an Aquarius but I have never dated an Aquarius before. I have a close guy friend in my life who is also an Aquarius. I think we are similar in so many ways that it's ridiculous, but I never let on to letting him know just "how" similar I think we are
...he's claimed to be in love with me for a long time now. We don't really talk about it anymore, because I always have seen him as just a friend, and there were some traits I thought would be hard for us to work through if we were to try to be in a relationship.
We can go monthsss without talking to each other and pick up the phone like nothing ever happened...and it's cool. Because we are both Aquarians I think he understands alot of things about me that most other people don't. I had actually come around to entertaining the thought of us actually trying out a relationship last year, and around the same time I was having that thought he found out he was gonna be a father....
....but I guess everything happens for a reason...
I have always been kinda scared to get close to him in that way because of how "intense" things could possibly get...and I've always been scared of losing him as a friend.
Off topic a little: I'll never forget....one time he politely asked me to "hook up" with him...and was serious about it! He had to ask me like 3 times cuz I thought he was joking, but he was dead serious!
He basically told me that if he couldn't "get me" emotionally, then he would try to get me sexually....his thought process was that things would be so good between us in bed that I would be hooked if he could just get one night with me....LOL!
ETA: I know this thread is about Aquarian men, but as an Aquarian woman some of the traits I feel I possess are:
-Slow to love but when I do fall, I fall HARD and am very loyal
-Definitely not all that good at following through on things
-Not very affectionate
-Definitely do get bored easily with people
-I feel that I have a very high knack for reading people
-I'm laid back and philosophical
-I'm not analytical
^Some of these traits can be attributed to me being an INFP, I'm sure....
ETA: Another trait I have...once I am done with a guy, I am "done". There is no back and forth...once I say it's over, you may likely never see or hear from me in life again.