Ladybelle
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Is it neccessary to cut your dh/so off on occassion? Cut-off meaning no coloring...
The reasons can and does vary, here are some examples:
1- cheating/adultery
2- hormonal changes that sometimes occur in woman's life for various reasons
3- a dh/so that is either selfish in bed or not meeting your needs
4- dh ain't acting right from the simple stuff to the complex
5- he doesn't give it to you when & how you want it, so you respond in kind
6- many others
Although the poll has several options, it seems to me there would only be two answers:Yes or NO
There are those who say No,never because you have to fulfill your wifely obligation no matter what and then there's those who say yes- sometimes it's neccessary for various reasons.
I'm interested in all responses - both Christian and secular....
If it's never neccessary, why? How does it affect a relationship?
If it's sometimes neccessary, why? How does it affect a relationship?
what say you?You can speak from personal or non-personal experience -whatever you're comfortable with.
The reasons can and does vary, here are some examples:
1- cheating/adultery
2- hormonal changes that sometimes occur in woman's life for various reasons
3- a dh/so that is either selfish in bed or not meeting your needs
4- dh ain't acting right from the simple stuff to the complex
5- he doesn't give it to you when & how you want it, so you respond in kind
6- many others
Although the poll has several options, it seems to me there would only be two answers:Yes or NO
There are those who say No,never because you have to fulfill your wifely obligation no matter what and then there's those who say yes- sometimes it's neccessary for various reasons.
I'm interested in all responses - both Christian and secular....
If it's never neccessary, why? How does it affect a relationship?
If it's sometimes neccessary, why? How does it affect a relationship?
what say you?You can speak from personal or non-personal experience -whatever you're comfortable with.
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