naturalmanenyc
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They've been together for years - since middle school, I think. There have been a few incidents of cheating and a few breakups. The kids are almost grown.
They finally got married (JOP) soon after learning that she has a terminal illness (seems terminal right now at least) that leaves her physically weak. She cannot have sex. He cheated, again, and was crying while confessing it to DH. DH asked why he didn't just masturbate and that turned into a weird discussion. Yeah, it's not the same as sex but it's also not cheating and going against wedding vows.
She doesn't know and I'm not sure how she would react. I'm not getting involved.
I asked DH why all these cheaters seem to confess to him - friends & colleagues. He has no idea.
DH's friend recently got engaged. The party was last night. He seems so in love right now but in a few years, it won't shock me if he confesses to DH about cheating. Hopefully, I'm wrong. I still don't think all men are cheaters though. My DH, dad, FIL, and most uncles are not cheaters.
They finally got married (JOP) soon after learning that she has a terminal illness (seems terminal right now at least) that leaves her physically weak. She cannot have sex. He cheated, again, and was crying while confessing it to DH. DH asked why he didn't just masturbate and that turned into a weird discussion. Yeah, it's not the same as sex but it's also not cheating and going against wedding vows.
She doesn't know and I'm not sure how she would react. I'm not getting involved.
I asked DH why all these cheaters seem to confess to him - friends & colleagues. He has no idea.
DH's friend recently got engaged. The party was last night. He seems so in love right now but in a few years, it won't shock me if he confesses to DH about cheating. Hopefully, I'm wrong. I still don't think all men are cheaters though. My DH, dad, FIL, and most uncles are not cheaters.
See. That just makes it even more heartbreaking. Mr. Doggy Peen out there just poking it wherever. She decides to date and thinks she gets it from her boyfriend. While it's very difficult to track the HPV of men, my first assumption would be that she got it from him. In my head he's a D-Bag so I'm just gonna continue to think he's the cause of it.
