A relative is getting married and I am so not into doing ANY legwork

[vevster]

I know it is in part because "my turn" is way overdue.

She keeps texting me with requests and I really don't have the psychic energy to get excited of it...

 

[SEMO]

I understand.

 

[AstroQueen77]

tell her to kick rocks...

 

[ThickHair]

I think instead of making any static, say something like, "I would love to help you with all the details going into your special day, but I have a lot of things on my plate and I don't think I can devote the time needed to assist you." If a person can not take that then they don't have functioning brain cells and you really wouldn't want to assist her in planning anyway. Good luck.

I have gotten out of two wedding like that. I attended both weddings and gave really nice gifts $$$$$$$.