biznesswmn
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This made me think of y’all
i told my nephew about pops (hes literally 2 doors down from me and be in the hallway all the time. i smoke but cant smoke in the room so need to go outside... hes also cool with the maintinance man... i dont know if i should trust the maintanience man either to be honest. he seems cool though so i could be jumping the gun but he sells drugs... theres this other guy johnathan and hes like a tweaker... he does heroine and meth i think maintanience man sells it to him (the heroine)@VictoriousBrownFlower omg stay safe with the pops guy!
But I'm glad to hear that the other guy makes you feel safe enough to be vulnerable with him
That’s exciting!! Congrats!FH and I are doing well. Busy wedding planning, the date is set for April 2022. We're doing a small destination wedding in Maui. I'm excited to look at dresses soon!
I agree with @OneShinyface. They are really just looking for sexual pictures to masturbate with. Most profiles have several pictures that a person can look through to see if they like you or not. Anything additional is just the guy being pervy.How are y’all responding to “send me pic” texts? Like uuuggghhh. Idk bout y’all but this really annoys me. I just say “I’m feeling confused about why you want a pic when there are plenty of pics on my profile. It feels weird to send additional pictures to a stranger.”
and then I just go broken record if they keep asking.
Maintenance men have keys. They have access to keys, usually to individual hotel rooms. Be careful of yourself.i told my nephew about pops (hes literally 2 doors down from me and be in the hallway all the time. i smoke but cant smoke in the room so need to go outside... hes also cool with the maintinance man... i dont know if i should trust the maintanience man either to be honest. he seems cool though so i could be jumping the gun but he sells drugs... theres this other guy johnathan and hes like a tweaker... he does heroine and meth i think maintanience man sells it to him (the heroine)
I agree re the additional pics. It also makes me feel like I'm auditioning for a man's interest and the way my pride is set up....that don't work for me. It's kind of like they are saying , "you're close ma but in order to cross the final hurdle, you're going to have to sell yourself to me". Eat a D*** my *****
I think that everyone on a dating app should have non catfishy pics and definitely include at least one full length pic in their profile. Have a couple glam pics for sure but make sure there's some natural cute ones in there for good measure. Most women do this so yeah if a man is doing the most with asking for pictures, he is just trying to get some free 'pleasure material'
This place sounds very unsafe. Please keep your guard up huni just met someone i really like.... hes this cool guy at the hotel where i stay.... we've only hung out a couple of times... i met him the day b4 yesterday and then yesterday we chilled outside. he didnt do anything but i was drinking and smoked a lil weed. hes super cool. he use to be in the coast guards but left... he has ptsd i think but is really sane (unlike me)... i felt comfie enough to tell him about my mental **** etc... he was really cool about it. i'd **** him... i'll see where it goes...
on the other hand theres this older guy who i call pops... he reminds me of my father. he tried to come in my room yesterday... i was like no... and he was like let me in etc.... that ***** scares me. i dunno just wanted to talk....
@Ayesha81 RED FLAGS if he isn’t respecting your pace and boundaries!I really got a pray on this one. We went on a date and it was nice. The thing is hes saying that we should to get to know each other more and to spend time together but Im just not comfortable yet going to his place for now so were talking on the phone until our next planned date for a comedy show. And thing is he lives about 50 minutes away I would be driving to be with him on the weekend he doesnt drive that does not bother me though. He seems to be getting very irritated about me not coming over and its annoying me I do like him and it seems he is serious like he wants us to be "us."
Just one date and he is already pushing for you to come over? Regardless it's about when you BOTH feel comfortable.I really got to pray on this one. We went on a date and it was nice. The thing is hes saying that we should to get to know each other more and to spend time together but Im just not comfortable yet going to his place for now so were talking on the phone until our next planned date for a comedy show. And the thing is he lives about 50 minutes away I would be driving to be with him on the weekend he doesnt drive that does not bother me though. He is very irritated about me not coming over and its annoying me I do like him and he seems serious like he wants us to be "us."
Please listen to your intuition. I know you like him, but you don’t really know him that well to drive 50 minutes just to chill out his house. It’s too early to be visiting each other’s apartment he could be crazy, a serial killer or a rapist. From my experience guys who rush to either go to your apartment or vice versa are trying to have sex or make out . All that talk about getting to know each other better is just a way to get you into his house. There are a million other places you can go to get to know each other, it does not have to be at his apartment. The fact that he is irritated that you don’t want to come over is a red flag, as others have said if he’s not respecting your boundaries and giving you attitude about it, run! Some guys are persistent about breaking boundaries and making you feel guilty or bad about holding them. Also, I know you said it doesn’t bother you that he doesn’t drive, but trust me it’s going to be annoying when you have to drive him around for all your dates and he starts making you his personal chauffeur.I really got to pray on this one. We went on a date and it was nice. The thing is hes saying that we should to get to know each other more and to spend time together but Im just not comfortable yet going to his place for now so were talking on the phone until our next planned date for a comedy show. And the thing is he lives about 50 minutes away I would be driving to be with him on the weekend he doesnt drive that does not bother me though. He is very irritated about me not coming over and its annoying me I do like him and he seems serious like he wants us to be "us."