Disclaimer: Yes, I dared say it and I will not apologize. This ain't the CF and this is REAL talk.
I'm all for couples working it out and learning each other's love language but please let me say that it's ridiculous to try and drill into women that their p*ssy has magical powers. All this worshiping the "king" of your castle, cooking for 10 hours and making y our home spotless, deferring to his demands and attitude - read, tantrums, scrubbing his nuts for him, allowing him to rule his kingdom....your p*ssy isn't magical. You can shove all the stones, crystals and platinum and gold up there....if he wants to treat you like sh******, he will. If he wants to cheat on you, there ain't a damned thing you can do personally to dissuade him. Moral behavior has got to come from HIS WILL. You cannot change him. You didn't make him and you cannot save him. He's got to save himself. Magical p*ssies are right alongside unicorns and fairies with wings and stuff. It's not the P, it's the D and His WILL that make him do unthinkable actions to harm his loved ones. So, save your money, your potions, crystals and such. Sometimes, life throws curveballs. Live, learn, sometimes, move on but don't throw away your right to human dignity and some "magical" place where you worship a man.