2012 Whats happening Relationship Folks

AHeadOfCoils said:
Good Mawnin my arse! Get back in here!! I hope this means that y'all are back together. :lol:

We didn't break up and now I feel kinda foolish :look: Not because I don't feel justified about not liking how he talked to me but because I was so melodramatic and convinced. Lol

When I say the feedback helped me it really did because I was away from LHCF, driving my car, and had a random epiphany: they asked if we were official because I said "we don't even have a commitment yet." I knew I offended him by saying that, which is why I included it int post, but I really was thinking it was the tone and I was ignoring what I said.

We talked about how we need to able to have serious conversations without being rude to each other (at first I was only referring to the way he talked to me, but then I realized I need to work on that too). He said he wasn't serious about the baby mama thing and that if I would have let him finish he was going to say "but I don't want to that." Which, frankly I still don't like because its still a threatening type of thing to say so I told him not to play with me like that. But at the same time, I said ugly things too so were moving on.

Um... What else? Oh! shortdub78 mentioned that I don't seem ready and I had an epiphany about that too. Lol. I do feel ready for something more serious but when we were talking he said that its frustrating talking to me because he doesn't know how I feel and because I avoid serious conversations. Guilty. I don't feel like I do this because I thought it was obvious to him that I seriously care about him and want him in my life BUT this is something people have told me many times so I can't just ignore him saying that. That was actually when I cried. I had felt that cry welling up for a while--since the night that I left--but I'm really good at suppressing that. When he told me I'm hard to read I just stopped suppressing it and he got all freaked out :look: I think he thought...chile I dunno what he thought but he kept saying "are you okay InchHigh? :look:"

At the end of the day (#bball wives :look:) we agreed that we wanna be on the same team and I need to work on being more open and he needs to work on proposing to me before we get to looking at houses on my lunch break. I'm just kidding--he needs to work on slowing down. While at the same time, continuing to move forward :look:

Oh. I also need to work on not throwing everything away whenever we argue. I just have a very "I don't love these heaux" nature in order to protect my feelings. But I do love him :cry:

Thanks again, ladies!
--sincerely,
Talkative arse inchhighprivateeye :drunk:
 
It's funny that you say that because i pretty much said the exact same thing to myself yesterday. We had a minor blow up and I was tell him about himself :look: After the phone call ended he sent me a text saying "i still love you". Even when we have our spats he is the one that most always will not let me go. Like i told him once or twice (:look:) that I was done with him over the last few years but he just....stays?? I can't verbalize it well but i feel that same thing that you said.

eta - he isn't disposable like other men in my life have been. what we have just feels different.

Lol yup. I have tried to date other people but it just never really works out. They all just end up getting rid of themselves but he doesn't. We don't fight nearly as much as we used to now, it's like we've argued about everything under the sun. We act like old people lol.
 
InchI,

I'm happy you worked it out!
I get embarrassed too when I overreact or get melodramatic.
Take it easy lady...
 
Today is our wedding day! I haven't seen or talked to him since yesterday and it is torture. I miss him!

Please pray for me so that I don't turn into a bridezilla as guests come with unexpected +8s, as children run around the dance floor grazing our cake, or as the elders tell me to start the babymaking process tonight. :lol:
 
MrsMe said:
Today is our wedding day! I haven't seen or talked to him since yesterday and it is torture. I miss him!

Please pray for me so that I don't turn into a bridezilla as guests come with unexpected +8s, as children run around the dance floor grazing our cake, or as the elders tell me to start the babymaking process tonight. :lol:

Aww!! I'm sooo excited for you!!!! I'm sure you're going to look stunning! Congratulations!
 
Soo I got a bunch of hair/body products, some earrangs, one of those natural hair t-shirts, and a Kindle Fire HD :grin: Yayyyyy for good gifts! They're now under my tree....I'm gonna try to wait til Christmas to play with everything lol.

I can't wait for all my other gifts! I love getting Christmas gifts from people! :lol:
 
MrsMe said:
Today is our wedding day! I haven't seen or talked to him since yesterday and it is torture. I miss him!

Please pray for me so that I don't turn into a bridezilla as guests come with unexpected +8s, as children run around the dance floor grazing our cake, or as the elders tell me to start the babymaking process tonight. :lol:

Awww!!!!! I'm so excited!!!!!

Sent from the corner pay phone
 
qchelle said:
Soo I got a bunch of hair/body products, some earrangs, one of those natural hair t-shirts, and a Kindle Fire HD :grin: Yayyyyy for good gifts! They're now under my tree....I'm gonna try to wait til Christmas to play with everything lol.

I can't wait for all my other gifts! I love getting Christmas gifts from people! :lol:

I am wearing my watch today because I will be seeing SO and if I don't have it on he will not be happy.....plus I want to wear it now :look:

Sent from the corner pay phone
 
Twilight breaking dawn was on cable tonight.

Start- damn, there's nothin on television tonight, I might as well watch this bull. Awww...so sweeeeee........Jacob is a pedophile.
End Credits - OMG. I want a relationship like Bella does. That wedding was so beautiful. And the fights. With wolves and heads getting torn off and ****. And Jacob has eyes only for RENESMEE.

What sort of ****ed up name is RENESMEE???

THAT is what you get for breaking up with someone right before christmas. I just thank Jeebus I'll wake up tomorrow and I won't regret tonight because I'll still be single. Woot woot.

SMDH. RENESMEE?


ETA. Could someone tell me where I have seen the blonde Italian dude fighting for good. TIA and merry Christmas.
 
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Just had a long convo, bascially he laid out how he feels but I'm not up for anything long distance, esp with someone who's so far away. I'm upset that he didn't say anything sooner, but I understand. Just hope I'm fortunate enough to find chemistry like that again. But if it's meant to be, we'll find each other again. I really miss him though :sad:
 
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Lucie, you get a lot or work surprises huh?
That would require too much work cuteness for me. HATE work pop ups!!!! Then again you're always gawwwwjus :) Selman pa kiti misye vin fou epi li vin jwen ou nan travay!
 
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Been away for a minute... but I was so sad about our situation I just couldn't talk about it. But... I think we have weathered our first storm and will be stronger for it (both individually and together).
 
Feel so sorry for my boo. He got stuck working nights both tonight and tomorrow night. He's so cranky about it too. I want to make him feel better but I don't know how.

Sigh.
 
FelaShrine said:
InchHighPrivateEye what happened to the date :look:

:lol: Seriously glad you two are OK. I told you to stop being foolish. despite that spat he sounds pretty cool.

Lol. You've been telling me to stop being foolish for about year :giggle: I'm just so excitable :look:

The date didn't happen. I punked out. The guy lives out of town and had invited me to dinner while he was in town on friday. After my girl interrupted cry moment earlier that day I texted him to cancel. My bark is bigger than my bite. :ohwell:

I hope everyone is enjoying Christmas!
 
merry christmas....he & i are working...then to his mothers house, then to my parents, then home...gotta work again tomorrow; comedy show Friday & i cant wait.

im wearing my gifts...necklace( chain is kinda short tho'...lol) and perfume :-)
 
Can you visit him at work and/or bring him food?

Nope, we don't live in the same area. Plus he works in the hospital and doesn't really have time to eat when he's at work. :(

I came to visit him and stayed with him all the way up til Sunday so he would have some company, long distance is the worst.
 
wooooooot!!! On my new Kindle furrrrrrrr! Its all fast and crisp!
I wonder if I can get Swype on this thing??
 
I had been eyeing this Coach purse at Macy's for months. Not only did he buy the purse, but the matching wallet as well. Along with an engraved phone charm that doubles as a stylus with my name on it. Really neat. He has a trillion watches, so I bought him a watch chest that will hold about 25 of them. i also got him an Atlanta Falcons Fathead since he is turning his basement into a Falcons den. He cooked breakfast and we cooked dinner together. I took my son to his grandparents around lunch time, so they are sooooo excited about having their grandson for a few days. Hope you all are having a joyous holiday.

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Me and the boy finally made it official yesterday, on Christmas Eve :)

But... we're waiting to announce it on Facebook until we tell his ex (who was also my college roommate) that we're dating when she visits next week.

That's gonna be an awkward conversation. But he's worth it.
 
Been seeing this guy for 6 weeks...Sunday he gave me an IPad 2 for Christmas and today we broke up....CRAZY ...oh well at least I won't go into the new year with someone that doesn't make me happy.....all in all I had a good Christmas and a new toy...
 
Been seeing this guy for 6 weeks...Sunday he gave me an IPad 2 for Christmas and today we broke up....CRAZY ...oh well at least I won't go into the new year with someone that doesn't make me happy.....all in all I had a good Christmas and a new toy...

Dang!!!!!!!!!
 
I'll be honest, I ain't feeling his Xmas gift for me :look:
And no, I don't wanna go to your bougie parents house 2 days in a row. I wanna go somewhere where I can eat, get the itis, play cards, listen to music, and laugh. Your family's house ain't where it's at buddy.
 
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