2012 Whats happening Relationship Folks

kweenameena said:
I'll be honest, I ain't feeling his Xmas gift for me :look:
And no, I don't wanna go to your bougie parents house 2 days in a row. I wanna go somewhere where I can eat, get the itis, play cards, listen to music, and laugh. Your family's house ain't where it's at buddy.
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:lachen::lachen:Right! He asked me if I wanted to come over his parents house. Hell no I don't. I just wanna drink, phuck, and play cards :lachen:
 
My cuz is online dating. On a first date, one of the first things a guy told her is that he was CHEAP. Ohhhhh lawd!!!!
 
Fine 4s said:
Lucie, you get a lot or work surprises huh?
That would require too much work cuteness for me. HATE work pop ups!!!! Then again you're always gawwwwjus :) Selman pa kiti misye vin fou epi li vin jwen ou nan travay!
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LMBO Fine 4s :lol:

He surprised me and my face looked fight-ready as oily it was but oh well! Nah, he's not crazy. He's a nice Haitian man.
 
So, my married BFF randomly tries to hook me with men that she thinks I might like. She's been doing this for YEARS! About two weeks ago, she sends me pics of a newly found cousin (that is actually childhood friends with her husband) and tells me that she gave him my number. O_o here she goes... So anyway, I take note of the pics. He's a decent looking guy. But, I didn't think too much of it. The next day he calls and OMG... we had a great convo! Our personalities are very similar... Nice but extremely sarcastic! My BFF suggested that he and I go bowling with them this past Saturday so that we could meet each other. So, Saturday rolls around and of course I get to the bowling alley super late! I felt bad because my BFF/his cousin was later than me and I was an hour late. So, when I first saw him I'm like definitely cuter in person! He has the most beautiful hazel eyes. Our initial conversation was great. We weren't nervous at all. We had a drink at the bar and then went off to play games at the arcade while everyone else bowled. We went back over to the lanes and hung out with my BFF and everyone else for a little while. It was a really fun night! We sat in my car and talked for about 30 mins after everyone left the bowling alley. He called me to make sure I made it home and we ended up talking for another hour or so. We've talked everyday since. He even brought me some tea and lemon because I lost my voice Saturday night (just got it back today). I have seen him everyday since we met. It feels great to be excited about someone... I haven't had that in a while! The only downside is that he's in the army and he'll be going back to NY next Tuesday.

BTW... That Mr. Annoying guy is a thing of the past!!! I dumped him shortly after that last incident. He's asked me about 50 different ways to give him a second chance as if I haven't already given him plenty of chances! He asked me am I going to date other guys and I told him yes. Then he says so you're going to date a stranger but you won't date me, someone you already know. I told him yes, because I already know what you're about. He needs to let it go! He has known how I felt about "us" for a while now. He kept asking for these chances and when he gets them, he just continues doing the same thing. So anyways, I'm over it. We didn't work, no hard feelings (or feelings period O_o).

Sorry for the long post! I hope everyone had a great Christmas!
 
I am so annoyed. This kid is so colorstruck. He said he wants this little blasian girl to look like his future daughter. She looks like a light skin girl to me. He is always complimenting white women or anyone that is 1/2 black or just not black. I know I did not raise him but it is disturbing. I tried to be a good example for him. It doesn't help that his mom and grandma are bat ish crazy sometimes but it is hard to talk to him. I don't want to be judgmental but I am angry. Like WTH?!

I don't want him to shut down on me but I am tired of this.
 
Lucie said:
I am so annoyed. This kid is so colorstruck. He said he wants this little blasian girl to look like his future daughter. She looks like a light skin girl to me. He is always complimenting white women or anyone that is 1/2 black or just not black. I know I did not raise him but it is disturbing. I tried to be a good example for him. It doesn't help that his mom and grandma are bat ish crazy sometimes but it is hard to talk to him. I don't want to be judgmental but I am angry. Like WTH?!

I don't want him to shut down on me but I am tired of this.
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Are you referring to the son of your SO?
I understand your frustration. I have younger cousins like this. I couldn't stop rolling my eyes when we watched miss usa last year, they thought all the black women were soo unattractive.
It's very annoying but you almost feel as though there's nothing you can really do.

Sent from my phone-typos to be expected :)
 
KHSADKAHDNADHASDKA (me in my excited typing mode)

We haven't talked since Christmas Eve (it felt like an eternity though). But today we're skyping and online shopping together and he gave me the best gift...a ticket to NYC to spend New years with him and get my first New Years kiss :grin: I'm SOOOOO happy about it but I'm not sure if I wanna go. I feel like it's just prolonging the goodbye. (plus I already got a date for the new years party over here :look:)

He also invited me to come live with him in london in he spring but i'll wait for that...
 
Look at my Xmas gift! It was suppose to be a joke but I like it! Been looking for a pj like this got for a minute...
 

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Rocky91, no he is my 21 year old godson. I try to be cool but it hurts to hear. He said he is proud to be black but fawning all over white girls and bi-racial kids 24/7 is a bit much. :(
 
I totally messed up my surprise (Disclaimer: he ain't good at keeping secrets no way.)

An acquaintance of his stopped to say hello. SO had also walked a little closer towards him. That put me a little far away from them but I wasn't paying much attention to them, didn't even see what he looked like. HOWEVER, my ears were WIDE open LOL. I hear the guy say "did you take that ride yet?" and then silence and then the guy leaves. I don't know when to drop something (still working on that.)

I humbugged this man all evening to tell me what his acquaintance was talking about! He kept telling me to leave it alone, drop it and whatever else. I'm like WTH?! You can't tell me? and getting upset. He said something that made me think it was a surprise and a good one so I dropped it. Later on, of course I brought it up again DUHHHH!!!! and the pressure was on! I broke him and finally he told me that he was planning to take me on a helicopter ride for my bday next month.

I'm so upset with myself....a little.

I need to teach him how to lie better :)
 
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bosswitch said:
KHSADKAHDNADHASDKA (me in my excited typing mode)

We haven't talked since Christmas Eve (it felt like an eternity though). But today we're skyping and online shopping together and he gave me the best gift...a ticket to NYC to spend New years with him and get my first New Years kiss :grin: I'm SOOOOO happy about it but I'm not sure if I wanna go. I feel like it's just prolonging the goodbye. (plus I already got a date for the new years party over here :look:)

He also invited me to come live with him in london in he spring but i'll wait for that...
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Awwwww!!!

Sent from the corner pay phone
 
I just came out of the "how long to date b4 a proposal" thread and I was all set to answer the question but then I started thinking about my past relationships and how I've never really had a healthy loving relationship regardless of time. I'm definitely marriage minded... I want that in the near future! But, what I really want and need is a healthy loving relationship. That needs to be my focus!
 
What an amazing way to end the year. Last night was great, and I can't wait to see him again later on today.

Sent from lavish iPhone
 
My anxiety is kicking in... He leaves in 3 days. We talked about what happens once he leaves and he laid his schedule out for me. He said that we'll talk/Skype and take it from there. He also asked me to come there to visit him but we haven't made any arrangements yet. I hope this anxiety doesn't continue to get in the way of us being able to enjoy each other for his last few days.
 
AHeadOfCoils

I hope everything is ok!


Loving my babe. He keeps hinting on us living in the same state. I'm willing to move if I can transfer my job and find my OWN place.

Wait, be positive, keep believing, and all will surely be yours.Sent from my iPhone using LHCF
 
deltadreamland said:
You were looking forward to this honey. What happened? Sending you a hug.

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I don't even know. I'm still confused. :nono:

I really don't even want to know what the heck happened though. I'm just taking it as God (or whatever spirit is watching over me) preventing me from doing something that I had no business doing.

Thanks deltadreamland! I really appreciate it! :yep:
 
Watching say yes to the dress. Again. :lol: :nono: i always get so excited seeing the brides to be find that special dress. I want to have this moment too.

Sent from the corner pay phone
 
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