2012 Whats happening Relationship Folks

NappyNelle said:
Sooooo date # 2 with Middle School went very well even though I felt like crap for most of the time. During the date, I kept getting text messages from YT guy. Um... why do you have to call 3 times and then send 8 text messages in a 5 hour time span?! :perplexed Divorcee only sent two messages and ex-SO sent one; those were normal messages.

Then YT guy says "I really wanted to see you and see if you were up to anything tonight... but you didn't respond. You must have had a date lol."

:look: I was on a date, nevertheless I just responded with, "Awww! I already had plans for tonight. Next time, let me know a day or two in advance so we can hang out. "

He responded with "Ok, will do."

Boy, you were supposed to make plans a long time ago. I can't even remember your distinguishing facial features, so I'm pretty sure you don't remember mine. :lol: Make a date, or KIM.
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Perfect response!!

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Not sure why I'm bothered at the moment.

Probably bc I hate criticism. My mind is very authoritarian *shrugs*

Can't tell anyone about this bc everyone would say "GET OFF THE F*CKIN COMPUTER" :look::lol:

I'm going to unsubscribe and venture in ET and RT for a few days, adblock OT in the meantime.....


eta: shouldnt have been a coward and chickened out by cancelling my LSAT scores. I shoulda been a lawyer......
 
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I really want to go back to Paris but he wants to go to Egypt. Psh, we can just stay with my family if we go there. That's not really a trip.

Maybe Indonesia or Hawaii.
 
We have a PR to look forward to and I cannot wait. The Rabbi has made some interesting points during the week.
 
I think I would just want to be engaged to know that someone wants to marry me and give me a ring. Ya know, that validation crap that Oprah was talking about a while back :look: I'm willing to keep it real with myself. However, I still don't know how to put the work in for a long lasting relationship so single it is.
 
This is a repost just in case the other thread poofs...

It has been said that the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results.

I'm officially changing the game for 2013. Thanks Zaynab, barbiesocialite & Syrah
 
My ex made me so, so, so, so angry last night. All communication is cut off and all favors are now done. The electronics that were left are now mine. The documents and clothes are trash. The emails that I have saved of major indiscretion on their part are saved and will be put into play if I am provoked any further. I'm so tired of this mess.
 
Middle school picked me up yesterday to go to a sports bar. I had planned on staying home, but I'm glad I want. He brought two pillows and a blanket so I could watch the Knick game cuddled in a booth. People kept giving me the "Ay, pobrecita" look, but I didn't care. I had a really good time although I felt like crap until the hot toddies and 'flu shots' started kicking in.

I am upset that the date I was looking forward to with divorcee is cancelled. Negro, you KNOW there is a gas shortage in Brooklyn, so why did you think some fuel would find itself in your tank? :spinning: Yes the lines are a mile long and some places are completely out, but you knew that before this afternoon and could have planed accordingly. I held my tongue and said ok, "maybe another time" knowing I should be home anyway. It's hard to look cute when you have a 102 degree fever.
 
I broke up with him. It hurts because I didn't want to but he mistook my kindness for weakness.
 
Encouraging SO to try and switch his job ASAP for one he will really enjoy with large salary increase :look: He doesn't have the right degree for that job, but I'm sure he'll get it due to his existing experience. Everyone's a winner:look:
 
Whoa! Lucie
I hope you get over this quickly. You know there's plenty of support here and encouraging words for jumping back in the dating game when your ready!

Un de perdu, dix de retrouves...
 
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His mom! OMG! I don't know who is over her the most....him or me. As much as I value great mother/son relationships, I must side with my SO on this one given the issues he's having with his mother. I felt so bad for him today when she came over. It was ugly. After she left, all I could do was give him a hug.

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Lucie said:
I broke up with him. It hurts because I didn't want to but he mistook my kindness for weakness.
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(((hugs))) Oh Lucie, I'm so sorry. But he gave you no choice. You kept trying to work with him and it seems he just couldn't get it. Everything is going to work out, the right guy is on his way.
 
Almost 5 months in and my quirks are starting to wear off on him just like I predicted. He mocks me now ( I am ALWAYS mocking someone lol) AND I got him watching The Walkjng Dead lol.
 
Seems like things changed so quickly... I went from feeling like *** ninjas get money:look: to being completely swept off my feet:love:. I have worked with dude for months... we have been friends for some time now.. and now we are an item:look:. I was not expecting any of this:lol:.

He is completely different from anything I would typically go for... which is a good thing since my typical didn't do me any justice:lol:.

He's naturally soft spoken, military, ambitious, strong moral/value system, family oriented, fun, ect.

He is very serious and clear about his intentions and the ball is constantly in my court.

We shall see how this all unfolds:yep:...
 
The writing has been on the wall for a minute but now I have to admit that my SO's mama is controlling. She sees me as one of her kids now and expects me to fall in line with her choices for me. She has known me since I was 12 and I have always been considered the quite one in my life. But I am not quite at all and she has since found out.

I know I have to stand my ground with her or else I will pay the price for the rest of my relationship with her son.
 
Lissa0821 said:
The writing has been on the wall for a minute but now I have to admit that my SO's mama is controlling. She sees me as one of her kids now and expects me to fall in line with her choices for me. She has known me since I was 12 and I have always been considered the quite one in my life. But I am not quite at all and she has since found out.

I know I have to stand my ground with her or else I will pay the price for the rest of my relationship with her son.
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If I were you I would keep my distance with her, feed her with a long-handled spoon, and let my SO keep her in line.
 
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