2012 Whats happening Relationship Folks

InchHighPrivateEye said:
Yeah, I started to type a brief random thought to vent and it got long. I always do that :lol:



What :mad:
It's the What's Happening thread? :sad:
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LOL I meant why is this 'friend" sharing such ratchet ish in public with you..like when it pours outta her mouth doesnt she think "wow that's kinda pathetic"..that ish should be kept in her lj or xanaga or whatever they have now
 
You might have to just tell her girl i love you utIm over your ratchet life so it'd be best if you never share that crap with me anymore. You stay ruining my mood

Bless your heart.

:lol:
 
She's weak and needs to get her life! I had a "friend" like that. She was sleeping with another woman's man. I let her go because I felt she was wrong and couldn't be trusted. Fast forward to a year later, I found out that she was sleeping with my ex that I was with for 6 years. Trifling, low self-esteem having hoes have no shame. That slut told me that I need to just get over it because they are going to keep going. He didn't know me and her were even friends, so when he found out he cut her off and she was MAD. She called me threatening to kill me, but I think she forgot that I'll tap day arse. She quickly remembered when I told her that I would be at her job the next day. I went and she was crying and apologizing. It's too late for the ho-plogies.

I was just upset that she would hear me talk about him and she was scheming to get to him. I deliberately didn't let him meet her, but now I don't let anyone know about who I'm dating. He doesn't know my friends and they don't know him.
 
Yuck drama. Cut her out. Unless she's truly adding to your life and making you grow as a person. You seem like a nice person, don't associate with such scandalous scallywag
 
InchHighPrivateEye said:
She has never met my SO because at first it just didn't naturally happen. We like to be in at night. (I love that we're in sync on that because I'd always have to explain my homebodiness before. Anyway...)
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I'm a homebody and folks try to make me feel bad about that. SO enjoys the nightlife much more than I do. So it's nice to hear that you two are on the same wave length :)
 
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InchHighPrivateEye You are better than me. I have no patience for foolishness like that. His poor GF is probably depressed because she's alone, in a new place without family and friends, and has a BF treating her like crap. I don't see how your 'friend' can willingly participate in this, encourage the GF, and defend her and BF's actions. My people know not to bring that kind of information to me if they want a co-signer or accomplice. I know she wouldn't be calling him 'a nice guy' if she was his GF at home, waiting for him to get off from work. :naughty:
 
I'm getting my life together early, so I won't be running late for my date. I'm always late, so me doing my hair and getting my outfit out early SHOULD prevent me from being late. I'm always doing those things at the last minute and they cause me to be late.
 
AHeadOfCoils said:
The weekend is rapidly approaching!!! I'm going to get my brazilian wax in a few minutes, so the swelling will be down by Friday night. :giggle:

My "trick" to giving it up ON MY TERMS is to always keep my vagina hairy while dating. The moment the hair comes off is the moment it's going down. LOL!! #JudgeMeAllYouWant I don't let ANYONE go down there while it's unkept. :nono:
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I wasted a wax. He was widdle and weak. I'm never dating this long again without testing out the product. No wonder he wasn't pressed about seex. *barfs*
 
AHeadOfCoils said:
I wasted a wax. He was widdle and weak. I'm never dating this long again without testing out the product. No wonder he wasn't pressed about seex. *barfs*
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I'm sorry this happened to you AHeadOfCoils

Does this mean it's over then:look:
 
Vanthie said:
I'm sorry this happened to you AHeadOfCoils

Does this mean it's over then:look:
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Yep! He was talking about, going to breakfast and I made up some stupid excuse about why I couldn't. I slept on it and made up my mind that I will be ignoring him. If I would continue with him, I would cheat.

I left my Chanel lipstick in his car, but I'm SOL. Do not want.

Like this fool was really only in there for like less than a full song! I was like "really, dude?!" I'm not used to that!!!!! He treats me great, but I'm never going to get over that. And he's beautiful. Like a breathtakingly handsome black man with an amazing job, god fearing, respects women, but has a little duck.


Guuurrr
 
what a bummer. i know how it feels to be let down like that. And you know, i realize that not every man is going to be an african dah dada however it's difficult to work with that kind of challenge.
 
Je Ne Sais Quoi said:
what a bummer. i know how it feels to be let down like that. And you know, i realize that not every man is going to be an african dah dada however it's difficult to work with that kind of challenge.
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You're right! I don't want anyone that's huge, but I def expect it to feel something. He was moaning, groaning and I was just like :/. Really? I would at least like to walk funny and have my girl swollen for a few hours. :lol: I feel like nothing happened down there. My best friend said "does not count" when I told her. Lmao!!
 
AHeadOfCoils said:
He treats me great, but I'm never going to get over that. And he's beautiful. Like a breathtakingly handsome black man with an amazing job, god fearing, respects women, but has a little duck.
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well if he's all that good stuff, maybe it was nervousness? but you also said widdle? maybe it didnt show its full potential? LOL

Hre sounds great so that really sucks..

God sure has a sense of humor..giving the kangs all the good ish :lol:
 
AHeadOfCoils said:
I wasted a wax. He was widdle and weak. I'm never dating this long again without testing out the product. No wonder he wasn't pressed about seex. *barfs*
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I would not let someone with so much potential go over one sexual encounter. Gorgeous? Treats you great? Not unless I had men lined up outside the door. Maybe it's mean, but I'd keep him around through the holidays. One, I'd have a date for everything. Two, things might improve.
 
AHeadOfCoils said:
You're right! I don't want anyone that's huge, but I def expect it to feel something. He was moaning, groaning and I was just like :/. Really? I would at least like to walk funny and have my girl swollen for a few hours. :lol: I feel like nothing happened down there. My best friend said "does not count" when I told her. Lmao!!
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Well, at least he has speech skills girl. Maybe you can use toys for the other stuff if he's a great catch. I dunno.

i once dated this one guy named Aaron. this was years ago. His mini Aaron was so small and thin when we finally did it i felt absolutely nothing. I've dated men that had ( i guess) average/smaller units and still had a very enjoyable time . He was the only person i ever had relations with where seriously i felt no a thing. nothing. It was so bizarre :perplexed I let him go soon after. And the thing is that he really was a great guy but i was young, very young and just didn't want to deal with that.
 
hopeful said:
I would not let someone with so much potential go over one sexual encounter. Gorgeous? Treats you great? Not unless I had men lined up outside the door. Maybe it's mean, but I'd keep him around through the holidays. One, I'd have a date for everything. Two, things might improve.
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Same here. Christmas is coming girl, let him make it up to you :look:
 
hopeful said:
I would not let someone with so much potential go over one sexual encounter. Gorgeous? Treats you great? Not unless I had men lined up outside the door. Maybe it's mean, but I'd keep him around through the holidays. One, I'd have a date for everything. Two, things might improve.
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You know what?! I didn't think of that. :think: That's a great idea. I have a rough neck in my little black book that always breaks my back. :yawn: Maybe I will let him get another chance. My mom said that it might have been nervousness too like FelaShrine said.

As long as we aren't official, it isn't cheating. :drunk:

I was so devastated this morning. I just kept :nono:. He could tell that I was disappointed.
 
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