2012 Whats happening Relationship Folks

Had an argument last night. Decided to go to relationship counselling for some of the communication issues that still remain when arguments happen. Hopefully will be a good investment for the future and make us even stronger.
 
NappyNelle said:
I chickened out and sent a text message to the guy from the train. I introduced myself, thanked him for the note, and told him to give me a call sometime. Now its up to him.
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Well he has called me twice and sent five text messages since I posted this. :lol: Now he's trying to make plans for us for this weekend. Usually, I talk to a guy for a week or two before I go out with them; but obviously I'm single, so that must have been wrong.
 
VeryBecoming said:
Yeah, maybe :lol: The problem is I don't know how he feels. He isn't very open and I just feel like I'm kind of in this alone.
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What do his actions say?

For example, I wasn't sure how SO felt about me at first but then I noticed he was always very receptive of me as I am, no matter what I did (I.e calling/ texting when I felt like it, doing things I like to do, talked about topics that interested me). i never had that before. He never made me feel uncomfortable. Even though he didn't always say it, I could tell he likes having me around. his behavior spoke volumes about he felt about me. Sometimes, you have to put that inner voice mute and roll with the situation. If something is off, it will come out at some point. For now, just enjoy the ride :yep:
 
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NappyNelle[/USER];17120299]I felt very pretty today for some reason. I wore eyeshadow, but I stuck to boring neutrals from NYX. A man on the train wrote a note complimenting me, and asked to take me to dinner. I think I'll call him since he did make the first move... kinda sorta. :giggle:
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Oooh sounds interesting. Did he give you the note as he passed by?
 
faithVA said:
Oooh sounds interesting. Did he give you the note as he passed by?
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faithVA His stop came up, so he gave me the note, told me I was 'absolutely gorgeous' and he hoped I had an awesome day. :Blush2: I was very flattered yet taken aback because I was in my own world reading and playing with my cane. Normally, the YT men that approach me say something really dumb or offensive, just stare awkwardly, or have had some liquid courage and in order to do the aforementioned things. Thankfully, he didn't do any of those things to freak me out. :lol:
 
I've gained some weight since I started dating SO, enough to look a few months pregnant. :blush: As SO and I were walking in Target last night, I put one hand on the top of my belly and held SO's hand. A man looked at us and smiled. SO said, stop that. :lachen::lachen:
 
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BGT said:
I've gained some weight since I started SO, enough to look a few months pregnant. :blush: As SO and I were walking in Target last night, I put one hand on the top of my belly and held SO's hand. A man looked at us and smiled. SO said, stop that. :lachen::lachen:
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I love it!!!!!! :lol: :lol:
 
I am going dancing tonight. I got my hair braided in two braids so that when I take the braids out I'll have some fat waves. I have a cute dress. Actually, scratch that, a sexy dress, my dancing shoes and I cannot wait! I have 2 dinners, a brunch and a movie.

I spoke to the dude today.
 
BGT said:
I've gained some weight since I started dating SO, enough to look a few months pregnant. :blush: As SO and I were walking in Target last night, I put one hand on the top of my belly and held SO's hand. A man looked at us and smiled. SO said, stop that. :lachen::lachen:
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Hilarious!
I gained weight since being with him as well (and loved the thickness) UNTIL the numbnut decided to diet! Now my pants fall off. HATE HIM!
 
Fine 4s said:
Hilarious!
I gained weight since being with him as well (and loved the thickness) UNTIL the numbnut decided to diet! Now my pants fall off. HATE HIM!
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Add me and my SO to the gained weight club. We haven't gained a lot lot, but I can tell. Of course he could stand a few pounds anyway. As for me, I'm always teetering on that don't look at another crumb category or else!

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AHeadOfCoils said:
I have a lunch date on Friday. I'm excited, but I need to find something to wear. . .
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It was a success! We ate at Harold & Belle's and I've been eating there forever. They have some really good gumbo and I was NOT embarrassed to suck those crab legs. :blush:

He asked me to go to Hot & Juicy Crawfish tomorrow.

He clearly knows that Cajun and Creole foods are the way to my heart. :yep:
 
We just got off the phone. You are at the gym. Why are you calling me back to talk WHILE you work out? No, not happening. I need to catch up on my DVR you simp!
 
Going to an amusement park this afternoon/tonight for the whole Halloween scary stuff. He bought us plus dd season passes. That was very nice. Dd isn't going with us today so we will take her next time.
 
Got a date with someone new this afternoon :D Hoping to spend the rest of the afternoon with my friends before I hit up this mountain of work I still have to complete.
 
Started way too much mess with this question.

Now I have a problem I never thought I had to begin with. *sigh*
 
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