2012 Whats happening Relationship Folks

Ladies what should I wear to this concert? Again he and I just broke up last week but we are going to this mint condition concert tomorrow night. What would you wear??? I am clueless here and I'm not sure of myself right now.
 
He is seriously hinting at marriage and that he wants us to have a baby. I am good with the marriage part but the baby part no so much. We shall see what the future holds.
 
Third day in St. Thomas. We're about to go workout and then go to the beach!

Last night we had a conversation about how we're okay with the fact that he's 30. "I like it," he said. Lol. I like it too. Makes me feel super adult by association :look:
 
Je Ne Sais Quoi said:
Ladies what should I wear to this concert? Again he and I just broke up last week but we are going to this mint condition concert tomorrow night. What would you wear??? I am clueless here and I'm not sure of myself right now.
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If he had any sense he's have you take a friend. It's gonna be super arkward btw still being angry and also trying to have fun. At least with friends you're not staring at the person who pissed you off in the face.

ANYWAY lol wear something fun but not overtly sexy..you dont wanna give signals
 
FelaShrine said:
If he had any sense he's have you take a friend. It's gonna be super arkward btw still being angry and also trying to have fun. At least with friends you're not staring at the person who pissed you off in the face.

ANYWAY lol wear something fun but not overtly sexy..you dont wanna give signals
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These are his tickets lol!!! I bought them for his birthday a few weeks ago. We are really trying to hold onto the friendship so this is the only reason I said I would still go. I hear what you are saying though big time.
 
I have a date tonight and I am so stressed out from work. I have no idea what to do with my hair, or wear, and my room is a junky mess. GRRRRRRR

I need wine.
 
Last night we bought my plane tickets for Thanksgiving. I asked him how important to him was it that I go and he said pretty high importance. It's also of pretty high importance that I get some fracking dressing and mac and cheese on Thanksgiving! I didn't say that though :look:

I'm nervous but kind of excited too.
 
Je Ne Sais Quoi said:
These are his tickets lol!!! I bought them for his birthday a few weeks ago. We are really trying to hold onto the friendship so this is the only reason I said I would still go. I hear what you are saying though big time.
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Good luck! He gonna wear you down and win you back.
 
A male friend said to me during a recent convo "See!? I wish my gf would talk to me the way that you do."

I swear that he's in denial that they're not working out. But his comments at times make me a little uncomfortable. :ohwell:
 
keyawarren said:
A male friend said to me during a recent convo "See!? I wish my gf would talk to me the way that you do."

I swear that he's in denial that they're not working out. But his comments at times make me a little uncomfortable. :ohwell:
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Ummm...be careful; he tryna see what you talkin bout
 
I have 1 hour to get myself ready and this room cleaned up. I guess my hair is going in that old faithful puff :lachen: I will overcompensate with sexy makeup.
 
Je Ne Sais Quoi said:
Lol. @TayMac based on the conversations we had today I'm almost positive things are a wrap. Love don't love me
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Now that you got that out of the way, you don't ever have to discuss the issue of you and him again.

Honey, I'd take your bad self to that concert and smile, laugh, fake that everything is peaches with me. It's not about him or putting on an act for him. It's about YOU and YOUR wellbeing. I am confident that just by you doing this, you'll forcefully re-wire your brain and heart out of sad and loss mode.

Don't you dare retreat! Dress to kill and put your game face on. :armyhat:
 
itismehmmkay

itismehmmkay said:
Ummm...be careful; he tryna see what you talkin bout
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What do you mean?

That day he was asking me for advice (it's not a ploy as some might assume, lol) and he was telling me about some of his insecurities...so I was trying to encourage him...and then that's when he said what he said about is gf...

I'm conscious of the fact that he's in a relationship, so i'm strict on boundaries.
 
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Lenee925 said:
Now that you got that out of the way, you don't ever have to discuss the issue of you and him again.

Honey, I'd take your bad self to that concert and smile, laugh, fake that everything is peaches with me. It's not about him or putting on an act for him. It's about YOU and YOUR wellbeing. I am confident that just by you doing this, you'll forcefully re-wire your brain and heart out of sad and loss mode.

Don't you dare retreat! Dress to kill and put your game face on. :armyhat:
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Thank you Lenee925 I needed that. I'm going to do just and enjoy myself!
 
Mortons said:
I have 1 hour to get myself ready and this room cleaned up. I guess my hair is going in that old faithful puff :lachen: I will overcompensate with sexy makeup.
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Are we in each others head tonight? I decided on the old faithful puff too...lol. But my room is still a mess....
 
keyawarren said:
itismehmmkay



What do you mean?

That day he was asking me for advice (it's not a ploy as some might assume, lol) and he was telling me about some of his insecurities...so I was trying to encourage him...and then that's when he said what he said about is gf...

I'm conscious of the fact that he's in a relationship, so i'm strict on boundaries.
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Oh you could be doing all the right things, but men who are on the fence...or for whatever reason are just looking for options talk like that and sniff around to see who is going to be around to help break them free. :lol:
 
itismehmmkay said:
Oh you could be doing all the right things, but men who are on the fence...or for whatever reason are just looking for options talk like that and sniff around to see who is going to be around to help break them free. :lol:
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I see what you mean. Sigh. I definitely see this being plausible.

Men are very simple, we're good friends but he's not much different in how he thinks, lol
 
crlsweetie912 said:
Yep. Heard it was pretty crowded......I'm on the other side of town though......
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Super random but really? It's open now in Randallstown? That's like 2 blocks from my dads house. Wow

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Why do men always want to kiss you when you're sick:lol:. They aren't afraid of illness boy. I'm not too bad, but still coughing and spluttering sometimes and he's still getting close as usual.

I'm not about that the other way around:look:
 
officially single again. :spinning:

i'm really not patient. "i think i'll wait....actually this needs to happen now".

we talked about him not getting back to me about seeing each other this week, and at first he was defensive, but then admitted it was inconsiderate. at the end of our conversation, we started talking about the debate and he hasn't seen it (or really read anything on it yet). this boy lives/breathes politics and for him to be just unaware is huge. so yeah, he def has a lot going on right now.

we were pretty much on the same page about this not being the right time, but really liking each other. he said he wants to be in my life however i want him to be (casually dating, friends, never speak again, w/e). and i'm still considering what i think of that.

i wish i could help him through this or there could be an alternative option, but doesn't seem like it. i am thinking that emotional intimacy would probably be just as frustrating. not sure what i want for us at the moment.

it's funny b/c my friend was clowning me, "let me make this about me" :lol:. but it's for the best b/c it's not fair for either of us. and it is still very early in the relationship. we haven't been together long enough to have the foundation to deal with this or for it to make sense :ohwell:

every time i say i'm going to be single, some man comes into my life. so i'm not going to say it. :look:
 
Is this the third weekend in a row that SO will spend with his friends and not spend anytime with me? If he can afford to go to a haunted house with some friends but can't take me to the movies or state fair because he's buying his parents a gift, I'll be kinda upset. Is that unreasonable?
 
BGT said:
Is this the third weekend in a row that SO will spend with his friends and not spend anytime with me? If he can afford to go to a haunted house with some friends but can't take me to the movies or state fair because he's buying his parents a gift, I'll be kinda upset. Is that unreasonable?
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No you are not. I would feel some kind of way. I would do what he is doing to you, spend time with my friends and fallback.

Wait, be positive, keep believing, and all will surely be yours.Sent from my iPhone using LHCF
 
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