2012 Whats happening Relationship Folks

Bublin thanks but it doesn't take anything but a measuring tape, wood, brackets, electric screwdriver and a lil time. FYI Hardware stores are a great place to meet men. LOL

In other news I went to a cool Boat Party last night and a handsome fella gave me his business card. I surely won't be calling him. We danced and talk for a lil while but I told him I was there with my girlfriend. I had not seen in year so he couldn't monopolize my time. I told him I'm not a Coyote and he still has milk behind his ears. LOL
 
@firecracker I was just thinking that today when I drove past Homebase. I must pop in there one day and have a look at some wood, er, I mean some screwdrivers, I mean some brackets. Geeze I have 'it' on my brain today. :lachen:
 
every weekend after we party we go to this DELICIOUS mexican food truck. well, last night the truck wasn't there. i nearly cried.:lol: he knew how badly i wanted it so he called the actual restaurant at 3 in the morning and to my good fortune they were still open! we rushed there and had probably the best food i've ever eaten in my entire drunken life.:lick:

i love how he understands my obsession with food and wont give up until my tummy is full and im satisfied.

but srsly though, if he doesn't stop, im gonna be a real fatass soon.
 
Spent the entire weekend with the BF.
He wouldn't stop feeding me.
And we drank sooo much.

I stayed over at his place since it was late (and I was drunk:look:). So we got our cuddle on the whole night. I definitely wanted to color but we were both way too twisted to do anything which is good cuz I'm supposed to be celibate.:look:
Well anyway, we are both having the drunkest of all drunk conversations while we were watching the matrix and then I blurt out "I love you" and we both got quiet. We haven't exchanged "I love you's" yet but I've been wanting to say it. I just didn't want to say it first.

So then my drunk embarrassed arse tried to fake sleep....snoring included:look: (I was drunk, don't judge me). I don't think it worked. It's been weird for me ever since. I think he was taken aback but he seemed happy about it. We haven't talked about it. How do I take it back?
 
kweenameena said:
Spent the entire weekend with the BF.
He wouldn't stop feeding me.
And we drank sooo much.

I stayed over at his place since it was late (and I was drunk:look:). So we got our cuddle on the whole night. I definitely wanted to color but we were both way too twisted to do anything which is good cuz I'm supposed to be celibate.:look:
Well anyway, we are both having the drunkest of all drunk conversations while we were watching the matrix and then I blurt out "I love you" and we both got quiet. We haven't exchanged "I love you's" yet but I've been wanting to say it. I just didn't want to say it first.

So then my drunk embarrassed arse tried to fake sleep....snoring included:look: (I was drunk, don't judge me). I don't think it worked. It's been weird for me ever since. I think he was taken aback but he seemed happy about it. We haven't talked about it. How do I take it back?
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The worst thing about having a wonderful weekend with my SO is having to leave him to come home. I love my home and all, but I love his home more. We spend more time at his place and his bed is more comfy than mine. And he has a basement that we just spend hours in chilling....watching tv...drinking...cooking....etc. Nevermind me yall. I'm just missing my best friend/SO tonight.
 
It's normal that an SO go from being your own personal Superman to complete Doofus in 3 hours flat... isn't it? :look:

I love him to death but some days it takes all I have not to verbally rip him to shreds.
 
*my fingers are still crossed*

:look: we have settled a few things and things are progressing nicely. He is driving me crazy. I wish he hadn't told me his plans, because this is killing me. Patience is a virtue that I am seriously lacking. :sad:
 
He's been the most accommodating,attentive & sensitive to my needs since I fell & broke my foot.
I love him!
 
daydreem2876 said:
It's normal that an SO go from being your own personal Superman to complete Doofus in 3 hours flat... isn't it? :look:

I love him to death but some days it takes all I have not to verbally rip him to shreds.
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And the church said AMEN!!!!!!!!! I know EXACTLY what you mean :look:
 
The concert was great. Towards the end we danced a little, he held my hand (I was drunk as hell :look:), got me pancakes. Other things :look: we are trying to work things out. He spent the night last night. Watched the game and walking dead. I'm not sure about things but I will take things one day at a time
 
Je Ne Sais Quoi said:
The concert was great. Towards the end we danced a little, he held my hand (I was drunk as hell :look:), got me pancakes. Other things :look: we are trying to work things out. He spent the night last night. Watched the game and walking dead. I'm not sure about things but I will take things one day at a time
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It's OK to try to work things out if that's what you want, even if you are unsure.
 
Je Ne Sais Quoi where da pitchas at son? I am awaiting a FB notification.

I saw Alex Cross last night with my dude. Yesterday was our 5th month anniversary. I looked cute. My rollerset came out so nice, my hair looked like a wig. :D
 
Lucie said:
Je Ne Sais Quoi where da pitchas at son? I am awaiting a FB notification.

I saw Alex Cross last night with my dude. Yesterday was our 5th month anniversary. I looked cute. My rollerset came out so nice, my hair looked like a wig. :D
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He took pics when I was buzzed. They are not pretty :blush:

Happy five months to you sweet pea
 
daydreem2876 said:
It's OK to try to work things out if that's what you want, even if you are unsure.
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Yes I am unsure but I know my life won't be the same without him :(

We are going to try and go to magic mountain on Saturday for the Halloween haunt. Hope we have fun.
 
They told me they dont want to date someone who is dating other people...Its still the same if they dont know about it, right? :look:
 
Mortons said:
They told me they dont want to date someone who is dating other people...Its still the same if they dont know about it, right? :look:
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I'd just be honest and onto the next three.

I think a person deserves to know if they are the only one in the running, or just one of many if that matters to them. If only to make sure they keep their total guard up, even with positive feedback.
 
Vanthie said:
I'd just be honest and onto the next three.

I think a person deserves to know if they are the only one in the running, or just one of many if that matters to them. If only to make sure they keep their total guard up, even with positive feedback.
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I dont know how I feel about someone trying to make that call after one date. On top of that, itwas a statement and not a question. If I wanted to be the only one, I would ask the person if they were dating others and if I dont like it dip. Not tell the how I wanted the shots :lol:

But I do get what you are saying, and I want to be fair.
 
I was getting along pretty well with a guy for about a month. I told him upon our first meeting that I did not want to have kids. He said ok. Friday he ask me what was my time frame for having kids. I wished him well as we are not equally yoke. Back to the drawing board. I will never lose faith, oh it does waiver A LOT, but still.
 
Je Ne Sais Quoi said:
Yes I am unsure but I know my life won't be the same without him :(

We are going to try and go to magic mountain on Saturday for the Halloween haunt. Hope we have fun.
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This is what runs through my mind when SO and I disagree. I can't either. With this relationship, I would rather figure it out and work it out, than part ways. What I have realized that it doesn't really matter who's right and who's wrong, most of the time. We can see the same situation very differently. What matters is going forward how do we handle the situation better so feelings dont get hurt.

But I recall you saying he's talking about getting therapy... hold him to that.
 
Mortons said:
I dont know how I feel about someone trying to make that call after one date. On top of that, itwas a statement and not a question. If I wanted to be the only one, I would ask the person if they were dating others and if I dont like it dip. Not tell the how I wanted the shots :lol:

But I do get what you are saying, and I want to be fair.
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Oh I see now lol. Yeah, she should have just asked. That's what I usually do in a neutral, laid back manner to encourage sharing :look:
 
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