So yesterday after being tired of hearing my dad throw shade at his current wife in church, I am good and ready to go. "After you give and give and give, when does the Holy Spirit say that is enough?" Boy if you don't sit cho arse down somewhere! How did he manage to find six women who were "crazy?" Out of all the women in the world. This man is dangerous and annoying as fuqq! I am out, I rather endure a tornado than listen to his shidd. Then my baby sister from Jersey calls. She is crying telling me dad has to have emergency surgery. I am like, "huh, I just left him in church, do I have to turn around."
I pull to the side of the road and call my grandma and ask her is dad in the hospital, do I need to turn around (moral support for my granny)? She is like no he is at home, and she gets off the phone to call him. I call my baby sister back and he told my other sister that she and my granny have a "do not resuscitate" order. And this sister is calling all the siblings and they are taking it hard. I tell her no, dad has been going through this for a month and we have been managing. Why did he call my most dramatic sister and say this? Tell her to stop that shidd. It is going to back fire on her. If she is going to be his minion, they will not trust his word.
She said dad wants them to call him and build a relationship. My granny is calling so I say I am going to call her back. She said my dad told miss drama this happened two weeks ago (I think that is a lie.) My granny told him not to tell her that. She has no responsibility over the DNR and that is pretty standard with pre op. His response, "well she is grown. She should know." I told my granny I would handle it. My sister called my mother, probably wanting to tell my sister. But I told her weeks ago, we been through that and my mother did not take it well, but at least she would be prepared when Miss Drama calls.
I then call my older brother and tell him to get ahold of Miss Drama. She is not talking to me at the moment. My dad is going to cause her to be alienated because of my dad's bull spit, so please stop her. She probably will not listen to me.
Then I call Sista Jersey back and tell her do not feel guilty at all. Not for him. I tell her what my granny told me and say look, you see from his response what he was about. He had Miss Drama contact you. What he is going through is serious, but we are at this point now, so for him to do that pisses me off. Notice Miss Drama had your numbers. He could have easily asked for it to make his peace. He wanted you to come to him, because that feeds his ego (Remember ex wives arguing around his casket like he is a KANG). And that puts Miss Drama in a poor light. When she is ready to come to me, she will but she is not ready for the truth, she is not ready for that pain. He is not our friend and barely our parent and what he is doing to Miss Drama is wholly inappropriate. And the thing is my dad has acknowledged that my brother is a know it all, I am the peacekeepers and Miss Drama is just that so I know my dad was up to no good, because we all fell into our roles. But I, for one, am sick of being that man's entertainment.
I tried to broach this latest escapade with my granny but she got defensive. So I am through once I clean this up. I am also going to contact current wife and tell her what I told the former, run, do not walk or, with this knowledge step your game up then call me when he is on his deathbed and, frankly I hope it is soon so we can all move on.
As for me, some counseling is in order. You do not fuqq with my siblings like that and I am so tired of raising parents. We are all we have. My brother does not associate with anyone in our family, period. But I do not think that is right as well, compared to Miss Drama, who is attempting to rewrite history. I am so tired of this hero worship.