Hmmm....this is a tough one. :scratchch
I'm not so much a stickler for a guy being "thicker" than me...he can be "skinny" for all I care, because I know that men tend to gain weight ANYWAY when they get in a long-term serious relationship!
Yet, I prefer men taller than me, but at the same time, I would ultimately have to go with how the guy made me
FEEL more than anything else.
I'd rather have a "shorter" guy who made me feel great and treated me like a queen than a 6'4 guy who was self-absorbed, treated me like dirt, and didn't make me feel good around him.
I know it may sound so cliche, but it's so so so very true.
Is your friend
ATTRACTED to him in ANY way?? Cute face?? Nice eyes? PRetty smile? Great personality? Does he make her laugh? What is the reason that she's been seeing him? There must be SOMETHING she likes about him.....
I say that if she's attracted to him and has a good time when she's with him, then she should give him about 2 more months, and if after 2 more months she just REALLY can't get over the "short/skinny" thing, then drop him. But she may find that over time she won't even see his height or his weight if he treats her well. We as women can definitely become "acclimated" to a guy's "look" based on how well he treats us.