Would You Dump An Impotent Man?

Ipanema

Ipanema

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Let's say you had a casual relationship. The guy was good with a large package. You had fun on a regular basis, but then suddenly he became impotent. Would you stick around while he desperately tries to fix the problem (slapping at you with a limp snake). Or would you drop him like a hot potato?

BTW, this is not about me. Just curious.
 
It depends on his attitude. If we were a LT relationship I would, but only if he did not have a jealousy issue. I know an impotent man and everything his wife does creates jealousy. She is not cheating but his impotency makes him tremendously insecure.
 
Ipanema said:
Let's say you had a casual relationship. The guy was good with a large package. You had fun on a regular basis, but then suddenly he became impotent. Would you stick around while he desperately tries to fix the problem (slapping at you with a limp snake). Or would you drop him like a hot potato?

BTW, this is not about me. Just curious.
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:lachen::lachen::cry3: Hilarious hidden line there !!
No Unless I m in love with him and we re committed . If It can't be fixed ...I m a Sag
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I wouldn't stay around for a casual relationship. I don't care enough to deal with the emotional repercussions of impotency.

If it was an LTR, I would stay if he ticked all of the other boxes.
 
Yes i had to deal. It was my exh. Started immediately in our late teens but i didnt know what it was and it didnt happen every time. Another reason to divorce.

tru4reele said:
I have never come across it, but all of my friends have. Some don't get hard and some get semi-hard and bendy. I know a guy who used to sell Cialis. He said the younger guys was all he sold to. Not old men.
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Exactly this. In his case it was too much weed and depression. He confessed to me recently he still has this prob. Hes in his 40s now. Smh
 
My ex had this issue. It wasn't consistent but after a while I discovered that he was using Cialis and trying to hide it from me.

His head game was sensational and he was generous with his money. I don't know why I didn't immediately connect his issue with his irrational accusations of me cheating. He smoked weed and drank everyday but refused to stop, even when I suggested that substances could be the root of his issue.

Anyway, his jealousy and insecurities became unbearable so I had to dipset.

If I came across a man with this issue again I would walk. Not worth it.
 
I briefly dated a guy in his late 20s who had this issue, he smoked weed every day, multiple times a day, so I think that's what caused the problem. While he enjoyed going downtown, he sucked at it. He was good to me though so we stayed friends but I was no longer interested in him romantically.
 
Oh man...I was with someone with this issue. He drank a lot and was over weight.
Once I moved on he got with someone, they moved in together, got engaged (his 3rd time) and then broke up. His engagement to the woman before me didn't pan out either. I always wonder if they weren't sexually happy now that I know what I know.
Now he's with a new person and also living with her. I doubt that situation has corrected itself because he still does the same things and looks the same (over weight).
I know about 2 married women in this situation. One steps out (because the guy she be ****** told me) and the other woman doesn't cheat (as far as I know).
To answer the OP, I don't think I'd be happy in the long run....
 
I've had this situation. The guy had a nice size package. He did get hard but he only lasted maybe a minute or less. His head game was just ok, and he treated me fine, but he would want to have sex after a few hours once he can get back up again, and it was the same thing again. He lasted maybe 1 minute leaving me frustrated. If I didn't want to do it he would get upset. LoL I broke up with him. He needed Viagra or Cialis. He was also taking high blood pressure meds. I hear that kills their sex drive. He was 36 yo.
 
qchelle said:
Smoking weed causes this?
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I believe so and I have read info online that states that frequent smoking causes ED. My ex started smoking when he was 14 and is now 43. He's been dealing with a broken peen since his late 20's or very early 30's.

He refuses to consider that smoking and drinking are the cause of his limp dick and inability to have children. He was with his ex from his teens to 20's and they never had a child. She moved on and had a baby with her new dude. We were together off and on for several years and he desperately wanted a baby. I told him his health was the hold up. I moved on and now I'm having a baby. Only tried for two months before conceiving. Clearly, he's the problem.
 
qchelle said:
Smoking weed causes this?
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Yep. Chronic smoking, daily, will give a man noodle dick. At first maybe the first couple years it does the opposite. Then it catches up to them and they can't get or maintain an erection.

It can also contribute to male infertiluty because it decreases sperm motility (makes them slow and high too!)
LoveLiLi said:
I believe so and I have read info online that states that frequent smoking causes ED. My ex started smoking when he was 14 and is now 43. He's been dealing with a broken peen since his late 20's or very early 30's.

He refuses to consider that smoking and drinking are the cause of his limp dick and inability to have children. He was with his ex from his teens to 20's and they never had a child. She moved on and had a baby with her new dude. We were together off and on for several years and he desperately wanted a baby. I told him his health was the hold up. I moved on and now I'm having a baby. Only tried for two months before conceiving. Clearly, he's the problem.
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See yea.

My ex was/is the same. He'd stop smoking for short periods and the ED would get better. I also concieved when he was on a weed strike (after being together 14 years). Soon as he was puffing daily, it would be limp again.
 
I knew a guy who had erectile dysfunction. It was the most frustrating thing ever. He was in his 20s and after a while, he became so rude, mean, and nasty when it came to sex. I'd never put up with that again.
 
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